Is it wrong to be simply what you are?

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tisya

it is not wrong to be simply what you are but it is not wrong either to change to be pleasing to others.i believe it is never wrong to better yourself ...

pointblankm60

be yourself inless yourself is horrible like killing people then be someone else who doesn't kill peoples :)

Maki is Bubu

No, it is not wrong to be who you are BUT you have got to take into consideration that what you are may not be pleasing to others.

*I LovE hEr! !

no. .

Daryl T

Never. You stay exactly as you are . Dont change just to suit other people.Be yourself ,in the long run you will find that being your own person has its rewards.

TuMa

i need to change abit

Harmony

Changes may be good...but just to please others? No way...

Rather just be the real you inside and out...just be yourself...you'll feel much comfortable and happy.

Paix

Not at all.

"It's better to fail at originality than succeed in imitation."

strawberry624411

You are what you are. Don't change that.

Peace
:-)

Jian I

no as long as you're not harming others, but sometimes we really need adjustments for our good sake and for the sake of others

yanmehrâ™¥â™¥â™¥

no! it's not wrong to be what you are...
just be yourself......it makes you unique!

need to change just to pleased anybody?...sorry never!

wtf

Don't change and be proud who you are.

skeptic

no!!! don't do anything to change it.. i love it the way it is.. simple

Serendipity

Just continue to be your simple uncomplicated self.

Jina ya!

in my opinion., being simply what you are is being your true self..if you will change to be pleasing and still have your true self..i think nothing is wrong.. but if you will change to be pleasing and lose your true self..you better think of it. as long as you know you are being true there's nothing wrong. good day.

you can't be what you are not, but as long as you are alive, you are capable of being your best

James J

just be who you are.....when i tried to change myself, everybody hated me and then i tried being myself ...and now i have ton of freinds and a gf!!

Sandy

I'm proud of me.You would probably appreciate that more if you knew what I was.

PM Howard

Nothing wrong, sweetie!

$teff-Annie x)

NOWAY WHATS SO EVER
cuz that is acting all the ur life ..and if u change urself ..u will lose urself ..trust me i did things like that and i cant even remeber who i was ....soo and if ur ttrying to please people they can stick up theres ..so find people that are like YOU

Mr. Quickie

Nope.

B.S.U.R.S.U.C.S.I.M.I.M.

Be as you are as you see as I am I am.

sheerâ™¥black

Everyone is different from one another so we have to adjust a bit; however, that doesn't mean "changing yourself" to be able to please them. It's just that if you want a good relationship with others, you have to show a little humanity but still be what you are. You can also benefit from it by having a personal growth.

jamiehappy97

No. Not wrong.

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alan

there's nothing wrong with it. just be yourself, whoever you are, whatever your are. be who you are.
beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder

kamagong

If for the same reason most people don't like something in me, then I need to reexamine myself and see if I am doing something wrong (e.g., perhaps my self-confidence is being misconstrued by others as arrogance). And if that's the case I might need to make some adjustments.

I'd make a change if that would make me a better person, because it's the right thing to do. But if I think I'm right, I wouldn't change just for the sake of pleasing people - they just have to accept me as I am.

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it's not wrong to be simply who you are---but it's way,way better if you'll like to change---for the better! =)

annabelle p

No, it isn't. What makes it wrong is when you hear people talk behind your back and make comments about your appearance or the kind of person they think you are. And because of this, you start finding fault in everything that is you.

I wouldn't change the way I look just to please people. I am what I am, it is what God and my parents gave me. What is important is the kind of person behind the countenance. What if I am ugly but so beautiful inside that people likes me?

Aref H4

Of course not.

"You didn't ask me to be born
You why should you learn of war or pain?"

- from Miss Saigon

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