Is messing with a married man wrong?

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Pumpkin

Well, mess around all you want he will never leave his wife for you. Your messing around will not make you feel better, loved, or beautiful. You will end up miserable and used. That's what mistresses are - pastimes. Nothing more. I suggest you find something more meaningful to do with your life.

olebdub

If you know he's married then yes it is wrong. IT is a sin to commit adultery.

vinyl21

o yes dude

willow, the yodakitty from hell

yes, it is wrong and it will bring you grief..

Sidoney

YES you'll never comprehend the heartbreak, and hurt and emotional toll this will take on his life, your life her life and kids if there are kids. Do you really want a man who'll cheat? does she deserve this (no matter what, she doesn't, if he's that unhappy grow some balls and leave)
TRUST ME. there is nothing but bad that can come of this. If he leaves her, he'll blame you, you'll never live up to the expectations that he had, she'll live the rest of her life feeling less than she deserves because somehow she didn't measure up to some ho, who thought it might be fun to have the forbidden fruit. If there's kids involved, the get the message that marraige is only good when convenient, the daughters will know that no matter what, Daddy can never be trusted and the son's will learn that doing anything is ok as long as there's a piece of *** involved.

Trillian

Of course, most people will tell you it's wrong since he's married to someone else and it's to his wife that he promised his love and commitment to. However, what if the marriage was a mistake and they got married too early before he found true love with you? Would it just then be a case of wrong timing? Still and all, it would be better to err on the side of caution and not indulge in an affair. Wait until he's free.

Memories Never Die

Yes, it is unethical.

ali

.......??? Absolutely wrong!!if his wife dun know...hhahahhaa

LadyC

It depends what you mean by "messing". If you mean a bit of flirting, I'd say its not a brilliant idea but its just a bit of harmless fun as long as you don't intend it to go further of course.

If you mean that you are doing more than this then the answer to your question is yes, it is wrong.

Some people belive that it is him in the wrong and not you. You're single (I assume) so whats the harm? If he wants to cheat on his wife than that's not your problem, its his.

However I personally believe that the way to live life is to think how you would you feel if you were in that situation? Basically, what I'm trying to say is, imagine if you were married and your husband was messing around behind you back. How would you feel?

sundayschild63

Yes it is,if married people are feeling the desire to cheat,they need to get a divorce first,then they can sleep around all they want to without hurting someone else.

shortbreadtin

Yes, unless the man's wife knows and is happy about it (yes, it does happen - open your minds before you all jump on me)

MaryAnn

yes it is wrong! Would you like it if someone was doing that to you? Hello!!!!

AbErCrombIe

no sh*t.

pishpuns

You have no idea the damage you will do. Do you really want to hurt his wife and children like that? How could you?

MemZ

Yes. No question about it. And the other downside is that in the end YOU will always be the one to blame. The "Evil Temptress" so to speak. You both might be in love and have a very decent very appropriate relationship. However, HE has the kids; HE has the "Family responsibility"; and HE is considered the weak half of your relationship. So if you are ready to ruin 3 or 4 people's lives as well as your own....go ahead.

mmaskovic

yes, what is the point of that no good can come out of it.

lorelei

i've done it once...i still regret it so u'd better not do that...

orange_crush_05

yeah...very wrong....hope his wife doesnt find out...better pray to god she aint one of those crazy ones.

stardust

note the word mess therefore not good

fab

yes..if you were the wife,how would you feel if you husband was cheating on you?

george

its wrong if your the married man.

DallasMatt

Not until his wife comes after you. I hope you aren't a home wrecker. Some men are easily led astray.

DJ68

In my opinion, No. It is wrong for him to mess with you. Unless you committed yourself to their marriage, you aren't responsible for upholding it. If he's willing to cheat, there is already a problem (and you didn't cause that.)

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