Should we believe in fate?Why some ppl born in rich family and some born in a poor famiy, so unfair?

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lim

man,if you believe in buddhist and reincanation then you'll know why.it's all the fruits that we did in the past life.

LiangMoi

Buddha teaching explains all. ( I have been a Christian all my life but I love Buddha teaching. Helps me to be a better person.)

kimht

as long as i come with
2 legs
2 hands
2 eye and 2 sense
that is very fair to me , thank you

xdeltacorex

do u believe in karma?mayb u were spoilt rich boy b4 and then in this life u were born poor.Who say life is fair?I also ask myself this kind of question many times b4 but what can u do?u can't expect ur life changed in one night just like Aladdin, unless u struck a jackpot-Life has its ups and downs so just accept the realities- live life to the fullest until it's our time to go.

Charlotte G

Not unfair. Some people are more motivated than others.

An excellent example are my parents. My Mother does not work, and depends on the government to take care of her. She has no clue how to manage money, and spends her money on whatever she wants, as opposed to saving, and only spending on things she NEEDS. My Father, on the other hand, has worked the same job since he has been 18, makes $85,000 a year, and invests in the stock market. He doesn't spend money on what he wants, only on what he needs, and therefore has been able to teach my sisters and I that money needs respect, not spent.

Everyone has the choice to do something with their life. It's just the motivated people that do it.

rl86

C'est la vie. We live in a place where anything is possible. It is a shame that some have things just handed to them. The American Dream requires hard work and determination. Don't ever be down on yourself for working hard. In the end, you'll know you earned everything you have. And to think, you may be able to leave something large to those who follow in your line.

Also, please remember many of those who hold great wealth today (Rockefellers, etc.) stole it from their fellow Americans years ago.

yanar89

Why do u see it unfair?? Will the son of a wealthy parents be successful?? If the son is not worthy enough, everything may be taken back.. BTW, why dont u just be happy and grateful of what you have?? Wealth and richest, are some small things in life, but happiness, satisfaction, and health are more important for a successful life..

winterlotus

Yes. No, not unfair.
It all comes down to Karma.
We are what we are today because of our yesterdays.
It's payback time....LOL.....so start doing good deeds to redeem yourself.
It is never too late.

yeah life is a *****, but you need to be content with what you have. And look at all the famous celebrities, most of them (excluding paris hilton) came from an average family life in the suburbs, and with their talent and hard work, they became celebrities. Some are born in a richer family than others, and that's probably the way god intended. And just because you come from a richer family, doesn't mean that you're better off than anyone else. Some kids from richer families would trade all their wealth to spend some time with their parents.
be happy with what you have, and remember the fable The Fisherman and his Wife

Mega â˜® Peace

You really do have a hard time accepting the truth huh?

Just work for what you want lah!
At least you'll know how to appreciate the money you work for. 9 outa 10 rich kids who got their money from their dad, doesn't know how to value money.

kk6644k444

If your father is a poor man, it is your FATE , but if you father in law is a poor man its your STUPIDITY, because nobody can BORN intelligent,is you born to a RICH family , after sometimes you father become very poor..or if you born to a poor family,after sometimes,you father become very RICH,is your FATE and LUCKY...must believe in FATE ,be GOOD in this life, next life will be GOOD or never be poor. life's life...

ang_cute_q_tlga

it is because us humans are allowing it by having money system and we exist in a reality full of polarity

chonnie

me and my husband talk about this all the time. it is unfair

Do you like Fishsticks?

I am going to go with the obvious man,

That's life. And yes I do believe in fate - not necessarily by intelligent design or anything like that, but I do think that things happen for a reason.

I have never had things just handed to me, I am kind of glad about that, I see those kids who live with Daddy's credit card in their back pocket and I feel sorry for them. They are owned by their parents and don't know how to be self-sufficient. I wouldn't want to live that way, nor would I want to view the world as something to buy rather than something to behold. People like you (assuming you have it pretty hard) have your life in the palm of your hand to do whatever you want with it. You are going to have to try harder to get the things you want but you are going to be a much better person for it in the end. The world is your oyster , sorry to be cliche but this is so mot juste to what you are asking.

Good luck!

sharkzzzzz

see MIND is every thing...like "YO KNOW THIS UNIVERSE BECAUSE YOUR MIND SAYS THAT IT A UNIVERSE..."and there is no such things called "ACCIDENT"...in every move we make our mind decides so we do....so don say its UNFAIR to be born in a poor family...every one has their next move fixed by the brain..INSTEAD OF PUTTIN THE BLAME ON FATE...ACT SMART EVEN POOR CAN BECOME RICH .....its my perspective....

Betty

Life is whhat you make it, if life is hard its because you made it hard.

It partially has to do with the parents also, if they f*cked up... the kid has to deal with it also. The kid, however, can fix it.

glamsugar@ymail.com

Everyone should believe in what feels right to them, but I personally don't believe in fate. I think a lot of wonderful things can happen to a person, or bad things, and they just have to get out there and see what happens. Some people may be born with money and then lose it. Some people win the lottery after being dirt poor their entire life. I wouldn't say it's unfair, just diverse. And that gives us a lot of choices to work with.

Arc

Well I guess you could say that. But I believe that life is what we make it. It doesn't really matter what happens to people, it's what they do about it that counts.

leather mall

Well, God is perfect God is complete and everything that comes from God is also perfect and complete. The only problem is that we lack a perfect vision.
Its like - As you sow, so shall you reap. Actually the deeds (Karma) you performed in your previous life, the mind you shaped in your previous life, gives you the set of parents in this life.

But the right vision is, whether we all are born rich or poor we are all suffering. The only difference is that the rich are miserable in comfort.
We are not questioning why we are suffering in such a miserable place or condition because Birth, Death, Old age, Disease, Faults, Misfortune, Unhappiness, to be parted with someone, to be forced to endure the presence of someone we cannot bear, these are all guaranteed in this world. If you think this world is a place of enjoyment so long we keep coming back to this place of Misery where everything is Temporary. The moment you realise that we are in this world because we have forgotten that we are parts of God. God is the Fire and we are the sparks from that Fire and the smoke that comes from this fire is this Material world. The duty of the spark is to go back to the Fire. But the spark on its own somehow forgets that it is the part of the Fire, gets lost in the smoke. So is if we can somehow during this lifetime we remember that like a pearl necklace, God is the thread and we are the pearls resting thread we cannot see Him but know that we are all connected to each other and to Him and learn to remember and perform every act as an offering to God and surrender our mind, intelligence and ego (our subtle body) at the end of this life, we shall go to His Spiritual Abode which is full of Bliss, never to return to this place of misery.
I Hope I have tried to put across what I learnt from my Spiritual Teacher

*Butterfly*

In the end the poor people have to work harder to prove themselves (not all do but some do) and it only makes us stronger in the end. Growing up with money isn't everything anyways.

JDstinger

Because life is a BlTCH get used to it.

Ryuzaki "L" The KiD

Agree with the first answer.

Joe The Provokator

as long as i come with
2 legs
2 hands
2 eye and 2 sense
that is very fair to me , thank you

hungrymons

There is no absolute happiness.

How happy you are depends on your own perception of life. For those things that you know you can't change, just accept it as they are. For others that you have control over, just have to give your best.

Live life to the fullest, no point grumbling over whatever that is unchangeable.

Arraaghhhh...!!!

next time you hide inside Bill Gates balls, when he do the bang bang stuff make sure you jump out into the correct hole....jangan sekali jump into Saiful's or SaiFull's hole

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