What are you going to do if you fall in love with your friend?

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Jai Hoâ„¢

i think the right thing to do is you have to accept that he's into others and therefore you have to just stay as a friend...if you'll insist of being with him as a lover then you might just hurt yourself and might also lose your friendship...seeing him happy with others should also make you happy...

annabelle p

In that case, I'd keep mum of my feelings for him. I'd rather suffer the pain of him not knowing than face the shame of him knowing about my feelings and not reciprocating. It is so embarrassing, you know.

Then, maybe, I'd put some distance between us so as not to prolong the agony. It is better to be distant than to go through a terrible pain of being so near yet not quite close.

babyblueboxerbriefs

This happened to me, but it might be a bit different because I was already with someone at that time.

I told the person how I felt and we had a long discussion about it. I was able to be honest because we're good enough friends to know that whatever happens, we'll manage to repair our friendship afterward. It took us a couple of years, but we're back to our old relationship.

Tread lightly. Fact of the matter is with honest you're putting a friendship on the line for romance. Weigh how you feel first. Ask yourself, what can you give up more easily?

luosechi é§±å£«åŸº

If he's not married, tell him. Maybe he feels the same way about you.

CriZzie

if he's single i'd tell him, and if taken well then i'd back off ... :D

CHOCO CRUNCHIES

you tell it to him...if that's what you really feel!

KhK

Should he be a bachelor, and you're still a spinster and has no commitments, find out what's in his mind. Ask him if he ever have looked at you as friend only? Ask him if your friendship can go to the next level?

Don't be shy or timid, after all he is your friend?

I could never love without being friends first.
Friends should b honest with each other. I would rather learn a sad truth from the beginning than to wonder all the time.
You have to have guts to get what you want out of life Go for it. See what develops.
Just tell them how you feel and ask is there a chance that friendship could be more.
Whatever the answer don't let it slow you down. There is no time to waste on shyness.

Jaimee seeks HARMONY!

Then look for someone who could love you back.

iLOVEfur

As long as he/she is not committed then go for it :-)

Everybody deserves to love and to be love.

BBN

I think this is the plot of your story:

- it starts with a friendship
- slowly, as time passes, you are falling in love
- you are too afraid to reveal as the feelings are not mutual
- you keep your feelings but can't stand the loneliness
- you start to shy away but he notices
- he tries to unearth what's bothering you and you give in
- he is surprise and he asks to maintain the friendship
- you feel hurt and more you try to be away
- he does not initiate to revive the friendship that is slowly dying
- you are hurt even more and you attempt to do a suicide
- you are rush to the hospital but too fatal to be in coma
- he cries all night with you blaming himself

Well, you can edit the plot as you wish...

Juan C

tell him/her the truth... if s/he doesn't feel the same way, go find another one... move on!!!...

Acc travelservices Agent Matthew

thats how your supposed to fall in love friends first.

Datu Dagohoy

Remain calm and wait your luck, if you are a lady.

Faisal Aryan

i'll definitely tell him about my feelings to him.

A.W.

Do it

im_roxie

I can totally relate!

Even if its really hard to accept and it hurts but as a friend and you really love your friend just move on and be happy that your friend has finally found someone to love and loves himher in return even if its not you. :( Just learn to accept the fact. Hoping that the friendship will not fade.

iscikedelic

I will do nothing, no extra effort just stay friends and closer.

nang.amie

reprogram his brain.

lace

i married him. we've been together for 23 years.

if he's not feeling the same way, i'd move on. he's not for me and i don't want to keep someone for myself just because i love him - i'm not that selfish. i want somebody to reciprocate my feelings, not a robot.

Krustifer

Grow up a bit, and decide for yourself, because nobody has any idea what your situation is. Or you could take some pills and forget about it.

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