What can i do with this broken heart?

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aNgRy YoUnG pOeT

here's according to the experts:

Step 1.
Find a quiet place free of distractions and begin to allow yourself feel it leaving your body. Close your eyes and begin to Forgive the person that hurt you or the loss you may have suffered. Forgiveness is the most important thing because it eliminates your power to hold them in contempt. It frees you, your mind and your heart. There is power in forgiveness. It gives you the power to control the pain and agony. It opens your heart and allows the Lord to begin the process. Remember He can't forgive you until you forgive others. Most of all forgive yourself, you're only human.

Step2
Embrace the pain. Hold onto it for the last time as if a dear friend is leaving the country. Remember how it made you feel for the last time. Once you let it go it won't be able to come back. You are now in control of the outcome. Let it go like a small boat on the ocean surface. Watch it float away. You are beginning to start the healing process.

Step3.
Reconsider what you thought about the whole situation. For example: maybe you were taking it all for granted, he/she won't ever leave me because they love me, he/she knew I loved them, high expectations and so on. The part you probably didn't think of was that either way, they are human. Human make mistakes and make bad decisions. We as human are frail and sometimes immature when it comes to hurting others. If you suffered the loss of a loved one, remember all the good things about that person. Remember the good times. Throw away the bad ones. They are useless now. God made them just like He made you, full of flaws.

Step4
Decide what is important. It is more important to hold on the anger and hurt or forgive them and get on with your life. Your life is precious to God. He would not have you sad and miserable. He came to earth to give us life and give it abundantly. It is your choice to enjoy that abundance. Start enjoying it!

Step5
Seek Tranquility Make it a daily habit to do the following:

Keep a journal

Pray for guidance

Find some quiet time and remember the good over and over

Write a letter to that person and express how they made you feel but for heaven's sake, DON'T MAIL IT!!!! Just read it and flush it. This is really therapeutic.

Keep busy with things that give you peace

Find scriptures that bring about healing (you can't do it alone)

Talk to a friend and tell them about your new direction

Encourage someone else

Arcare

Stop watching the korean dramas

Chris

Need help fixing it?

ernest j

cherish what broke the heart, but move on and grow.

Seek help from the Bee Gees they did a song.

Maxie G

If your heart was broken, you'd be dead.

MOVE ON.

Spydey

start fixing it and try to move forwards, slowly. let it find the cure.

Aref H4

Give it back! That's not yours! Any heart that could look like that, so broke up as if a runaway truck rolled over it, can only be mine!

Arc

I'll mend it for you.

heartburn

use elmer's glue or epoxy.

mrs. darcy

put it back together.

Erin

um idk freaking cus the man out for dumping you

ilovemusicPATD

Find someone better who makes you laugh someone that won't break your heart.Move on to bigger and better things.

Caligirl

heal it

Mrs. Jaimee Harmony OOH

How Can You Mend a Broken Heart 101
by The Bee Gees (though I like Al Green's version)

I can think of younger days when living for my life
Was everything a man could want to do
I could never see tomorrow, but I was never told about the sorrow

And how can you mend a broken heart?
How can you stop the rain from falling down?
How can you stop the sun from shining?
What makes the world go round?
How can you mend a this broken man?
How can a loser ever win?
Please help me mend my broken heart and let me live again

I can still feel the breeze that rustles through the trees
And misty memories of days gone by
We could never see tomorrow, no one said a word about the sorrow

And how can you mend a broken heart?
How can you stop the rain from falling down?
How can you stop the sun from shining?
What makes the world go round?
How can you mend this broken man?
How can a loser ever win?
Please help me mend my broken heart and let me live again

mark m

life is too short to let this get you down. look at this point in your life as an opportunity to better yourself.

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nothing.. just let time heal it..

Alex N

Read books and better yourself in education! You are nothing if you have no degree and no job. Good luck!

Î¨Î¾There is Peace in Ya!m$eng

do u try double side tape?

Juan C

fix it in a new whole...

Meot Tog

try bungee jump

Lapu-lapu arf

You can ask Barrio Lass, TinaBeer and _Smile_ . They've been through all the heartaches you can imagine but somehow they can still YAP and be happy...

Wait for their answers sweetie... Pa kiss nga, lick....

Gondola Girl

Make a really sad song or maybe a sad musical! Being heart broken is a great way to create art, why waste that feeling?

mickey the zombie

I can bang you.

Molli

Use band-aids.

AnnaMarie M

try to mack it right.

5tonjeepman

Hi.. Oh-honey what happened?? I hope your ok? Was this over a boy? Here's a huge-hug for your broken heart..:-(( That's terrible..
Talk is cheap, I'm always here..:-))))))))

dumbo247

let me have a look @ it

John S

hook up

yuanyuan

pick up the pieces dear. that's what u can do for now.

answerme

hmm....... find a new boy friend to fix it up

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