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Don't steal and don't play tricks then you'll win Filipina's heart. |
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MILF Detective
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First, like a lot of others have already said, you can not steal a woman's heart.
Next, in the Philippine culture, the good women are ones to follow what we in the western culture call, old-fashioned traditions.
Translation. They expect a man to act like a true gentleman. That means you should consider doing things like making sure she likes you before you start to go after her heart. It also means you should never consider cheating on her or even going after another man's lady. Take Bazooka Jane for example. She has a fiance already and it is considered low class to try to win the attentions and affections of a woman who is already spoken for.
The Filipinas are very religious people. 95% Christian, 5% muslim and others. They are the only Christian country in all of Asia. Out of the 95% Christians, 80% are Roman Catholic, the other 15% are a wide variety of faiths. |
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babyblueboxerbriefs
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The Philippines, much like a lot of Asian countries, have very stringent rules on how men should act. I suggest you go through the age old practice of "panliligaw" or courting. Flowers, gifts, poems... the whole cliched shebang, believe it or not, still works. Of course, this requires you to (1) have money, (2) be a gentleman, and (3) be a decent conversationalist. Filipinos are romantics at heart. Serenade your lady with a sappy love song. Respect her and her wishes. Get along with the people closest to her (getting props from her bestfriend always helps).
In short, stealing a Filipina's heart is pretty much like stealing the heart of any woman anywhere in the world. |
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Johny
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From my experience mate I can only say afew things that makes them never forget about you.
1.Treat them with respect
2.Make them laugh alot
3.Never give them room to think something bad about you ie if she thinks you don't listen enough buy her something really nice to take her mind of it
4.Just generally be good to them.
Simple logic really. They are pretty easy to be with and if you play your cards right then you can't screw it up. Just don't think money will be the key. |
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keltillos
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The hardest part is getting it out. Its located fifth rib down and slightly to the left. There are two major vessels and some small ones that you'll need to cut, also, there is some connective tissue (likely including some adipose) and at least one nerve.
Once you've severed all of the connections, it will squeeze out easily, and you can make your getaway. Have a car waiting nearby with a driver...once you get home, your theft is complete. |
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zhang_minhwa
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chivalry. |
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Be courteous not just to her but also to her family. And you have to accept her ways and do not try to change anything, because that's the way she already is. Accept her for who she is, because she'll definitely accept you for who you are. And she wouldn't change anything about yourself. |
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Kojak
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You can not "steal" her heart......her heart can only be given away by her.
Be yourself.... and pray YOU are the type of man she wants
If you pretend to be what YOU think she wants......when she finds out the truth you will lose her anyway..... by then it will hurt even more
Do not be plastic.... be real ......make your life a fun place to be.....and maybe she will want to join you.
Took me two years of work and pain.... but i found the ONE for me......never been happier |
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Students of ACLC - Las Pinas
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1. Serenade. Ever heard of that? Go in front of the window of a Filipina's house, with your best guitar. Select the best song (i.e. about romance, of course). Then sing that song while strumming that guitar. Wait till the Filipina opens the window, then watch you sing.
2. Learn to speak the Filipino language (i.e. Tagalog). At least by learning the language, it means you are showing your effort in appreciating the culture. For your first Tagalog word, here it is: "Mahal kita" (which means "I love you")
3. Be kind, don't be a racist. If you are a closet racist, keep it that way. Because once everybody finds out, you are facing a whole barangay (i.e. town) with their bolos or itaks (i.e. their swords). |
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noldzki
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there are no tricks needed. just be yourself. try to be funny, but don't push it. you're being funny will let her see how you deal with life. and, at least, sing her a song. better if you can play a musical instrument. like a "harana" (serenade). most filipinas love it. (wag ka lang magdadala ng piano!) =) |
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bluecross0924
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just be yourself and learn to appreciate our culture.. you will definitely win her heart. |
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maej
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three things:
LOVE.
FIDELITY.
DEVOTION.
if you have those, then I'd give you my heart, willingly, no need to steal it. |
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kugay
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There's no trick neede and you can't steal one heart because you like it,it should be two way around.
It's not the money that always counts, be yourself and let her feel your true intension. |
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theonethatgotaway
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you don't steal you buy your way in |
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Squirrel Cage
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One way is to act like a real gentleman, like Bluto and others have said. That means do not try to steal or win the affections of a woman who is already taken, like Bazooka Jane. That is what you are trying to do, or have I heard wrong? If I heard wrong, my most sincere apologies are due. But she is your only contact or friend on your 360 profile so it kind of does look like you are trying to get her. Did you know she is planning her wedding? I suggest you find a Filipina who is available.
You really do should not go after a woman who is spoken for, buddy. If she cheats with you, what chances are there that she might cheat on you too later? I could never trust a woman who cheats, regardless if she cheats with me or not. Trust is a huge part of any serious relationship. That is one reason why I wont cheat nor will I ever be with a woman who will cheat.
My 2 cents, now I will get down off of my soap box. Have a great day everyone. |
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pinkdot
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with intentions pure and true, i don't think you could ever go wrong.
;) |
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ronald_pwll
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1st be honest with her in all things . accept her the way she is . and love her first and show your love |
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Hannah Torres
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secret^^ |
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Mutya P
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You need to know each other better for at least, a year or two. Then continue your friendship till you meet each other so as to know if she's the right one for you. Be very careful because she might ask you to buy this and that for her and then extend her request to buy this and that for my other members of the family. And with that, you will know what to do.
And if you still want to steal her heart, just simply ignore these kind of buy this and that tactics. You accept all her demands and soon enough, you will win her.
Take care and GOD BLESS!!!!!! |
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la_ciudadista
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there's no trick just be honest or truthful and genuinely love the girl.
Filipinas are not gold diggers. |
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anj
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Holla!
Steal it while she's sleeping. |
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®PsychologyGuy
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Don't take this the wrong way, but having lots of money. Now before you thumbs down me, you need to understand why. In Filipino culture you will be looked to as a male role model and provider. You will be expected to provide support for your extended Filipino family. This does not mean they are gold diggers or out to screw you over. You can choose to view it that way if you want, but if you are open-minded enough to understand the way they view men, you will understand that your role is more like a "traditional" man which is why they tend to be attracted to older, more established men and are not nearly as hung up on a man's looks. |
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Slide
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Go to her parents. Tell them how much you love and care for their daughter. It's an old tradition, but still parents' approval is highly neccessary. Another old tradition is "Harana" that you have to sing in front of her house,before she would let you in.
Your girl will not think twice if her parents like you. Good luck. |
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goryo53
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No need to steal it,if you got the right bait you can win her,I have been married to a Filipina for 26 years and she found me.Goodluck. |
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Juan C
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her family should like you too... |
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mary2008
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Money. And don't let anyone try to give you a bunch of b**s about romantic love and all that. Foreigners here who give you advice might already have been bamboozled by the girls of the country, no matter what we try to tell them they would never see the side of the Filipinos that only a fellow Filipino would be able to see. It does not help matters any as well that they are treated well by the Filipinos whom they meet, the same ones who treat us fellow Filipinos shabbily. Hence, their perspective would be slightly different.
There is nothing wrong with admitting that money would be the way to most women's heart here. Money is necessary for survival, as is the case everywhere in the world. It would only be unfortunate if one tries to romanticize an otherwise straightforward matter of survival or tries to entertain notions of things being greater than what they actually are. |
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xpressive10
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- be on the parents good side, make them love you
- prove to the parents that you can take care of her for the future. $ wise.
- be a celeb
- be tall, so she can have tall kids
- be white/american b/c the folks love mestiso children
- did i also say have alot of $
- able to take care of her, the fam, & her fam back in the island
- Dont be filipino, but if you are you better have all the shizzle mentioned above well to the exception of the white american nationality... lols unless you bust some Michael Jackson skin color transformation. |
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DONT CALL ME BY MY SLAVE NAME!
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They are regular people just like any other race. I must warn you though that some have racist parents (like mine lol). |
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Magic Mouse
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Well watch Ratatouille.... Good rats dont steal so i dond really know.....Ok, i'll tell you as a friend. but you have to translate it.
Here it is: Squuuweeeek sqweeeeeeeeeek squeek.
Its foolproof... Works like a charm. |
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atlantismeditation@sbcglobal.net
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don't know ,do you have a crush on bazooka jane ? jk,lol. |
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yusdz
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the BEST man WIN |
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