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freeverse

Scott,I'll tell you straight what I see on this.you love her and you're trusting her so much,your emotions are overwhelming and makes you blind on the real issue.She already LEAVE you for another man,her reasons is all about money...if she truly loves you she will not leave you even if you don't have a single penny on your pocket but rather will help you to find productive things that you two can do.
I already answer to your previous question similarly about this.And now it is so OBVIOUS that she's playing with your emotions,reasons:
if she has a little respect for his husband,she will not contact you anymore.
If she has decency in her body,she will not ask a help in her ex-bf WITHOUT the consent of her husband.
I can feel she is not contented for whatever she has.
You offered her a lifetime commitment as she received the ring you gave...why now she's with another man?
Please help yourself because no one would really help you except your determination to move on and erase her from your life.

et mateo

if a filipina girlfriend starts to talk about money, then you are in for trouble.
leave her. forget her. she's married anyway.
other deserving filipinas are waiting for your call!

bounce_00

Leave this girl for your peace. She is just using you. If she loves you:

1.) She would have not married the other guy.
2.) She would have stayed anywhere, in the Philippines, in the US, or in Iraq, just to be with you. If one loves you, she would stay wherever you wanted her to stay, not because she is so itchy to go to the US.
3.) This girl is using you, clear as the sun. She is already married. If she can do this, to her husband, I find no reasons why she can't do this to you later.
4.) SHE DID NOT LOVE YOU. Leave her. Find someone else.

If you persist, then take your own risks. Save yourself from pain and agony. Sweet girl, sweet words, wont let you go anywhere.

tom1941

Are we suppose to feel sorry for you? You stated you knew she was taking advantage of someone else why did you think she would act differently for you. I am sorry you play with fire you get burned. Learn from the experience and move on.

Momu

Oh I think she's playing you and her husband. She's nothing but trouble. Why don't you move on and find someone else? I feel sorry for you. I hope everything works out for you.

nicelvguy

Something is wrong,
Since you can not bring a fiancee here into the USA if you can not afford it. The government asks for tax information and makes you fill out paperwork to prove you can afford the person. I think you are being played.

SNL

she's playing with you. hmmmppp. scenario: you took her away from her other bf and then one day she found another american who's rich then what? she will leave you for that guy. hmmmpp. she's a two timer. be careful in meeting people online. hmmmppp.

marloelaine

You need to cut your losses and end your relationship with her right away!

There are many other sweet, beautiful Filipina ladies out there. This one is giving the rest of us a bad name!

Make sure the next one is SINGLE!

Lala

you've posted this before and I think you already know that gold digging who*e is playing u for a fool.

Get a life. Move on. I know you must be sad wherever you are now but better days will come... Get back to reality and leave the wh*re behind. She's with you for your money.

You maybe "in love" but letting someone use you for your money and deep down you know it makes you look pathetic more than her.

She's just another puta who'll run your money dry and leave you when you've got nothing more. Makes them filipinas out there look disgraceful.

freAk

fine i am a filipino but i admitt it she is a slot a flirt....
that's what i hate about them ...

A B

Here's the truth.....

She's just using and manipulating you. You're tolerating her ways because she's the "prettiest"? Is that all it is then? Don't you think that's shallow?
You need to wake up from this nightmare soon. You will surely be living a miserable life with this one.

By the way, NOT all Filipinas are like her.

skeptic

well... the thing is.. i think she's better off without you.. she choose to be with this american guy and thats her problem... its best to keep away from her unless your willing to loose everything too...

heartburn

what a story line,lets make a movie out of it.

toshi

This is just like watching a tv series. LOL. But seriously speaking though, she is definitely using you for money. No decent girl, Filipina or not, would cheat on her husband, and ask someone else to support her financially. Beauty is nothing when her heart is as black as her thoughts.

Try telling her you got bankrupt and see what her reaction is.

MSV

LMAO! She got you with the pawnshop story? LOLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

She states she had to pawn her jewelries to make ends meet... and you offered to pay to get her jewelry back? That's so convenient!

I can tell that you have fallen for her and I know its hard to let go of those feelings, but you are heading down a road where you do not want to be.

Just leave her, she'll be fine, the Air Force Guy must really love her to be that broke, she's just not content on what she has, and she probably had high expectations when she went to the US, thinking $500 a month the Air Force Guy was sending was chump change.

Also word of advice, never tell a poor filipina how much you make, because they will base it off that. If you send $500 a month once, they will expect more later on...

Find a hardworking, professional, educated Filipina!

I swear i don't understand why you guys always fall for the poor and dumb ones in this country and all the smart and honest ones are left here...

kugay

Only thing I can advice you..get off with her!

Winter

She is just scamming you.. it is so clear I swear! I'm a filipina and has an american bf but I never ever asked him for a single dime we been together for almost a year now and I've seen him 4 times already. He goes here every 2 months. You really need to move on with you life.. I understand that it is easier said than done but thats what needs to be done for your own sake. Shes obviously not respecting you, her husband and herself.

girl ur looking for!

i think she is not that serious .. love is also bout sacrifices

i think she goes for money not for true love

_smile_'s Kometa of Biga-a

With or without you she will still be a big CHEAT.
Leave her and live a life...

That's the problem with online dating. Now you learned your lesson.

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