What should I do to get a japanese girlfriend?

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Kaonashi

Why are you specifically looking for a Japanese girlfriend? I hope you don't believe in that notion that Japanese girls are docile and submissive. And what about Japanese-American girls? Why not one of them instead? Or are they too independent and American for you?

Adam

Try yahoo chat in the Japan room. Or a personal ads site such as

www.japancupid.com

Jet

Go to japan.

If you're already in japan, ask a girl "Oh da reeb ma shu ka?"

Translation: "Do you want to dance?"

Flyingbird2000

Find a "girl" who is "japanese", try to make "friend" out of her, and here you have the "japanese girlfriend". So simple isn't it.

I hate hippies

I've said this before my wife is Japanese what did I do to find her. Absolutley nothing. I had no intrest in Japan or Japanese women when I met her as I have also said before at the time it would have taken me awhile to find Japan on the Map. All I did was end up in line behind her at the Supermarket. Oh and this was in the Untited States

pacific_crush

Move to Japan?

*Mea*

i would recommend you log on to WWW.TRUEMATCH.COM and prepare your profile it can help you find a japanese girlfriendnor you could also try WWW.AMERICANSINGLES.COM

do a little research on tthe internet and you might find your perfect girl.

Daniel L

Go to places where you meet Japanese girls. Try dating services, trips to Japan, working for a Japanese company, taking Japanese language classes, etc.

Finally, become attractive in the eyes of Japanese girls. Make certain you are providing what they are seeking in a foreign man. This might include speaking some Japanese, being knowledgeable in Japanese customs, being able to fly her to Japan each year to see her family, being in shape so you don't look like a fat American, etc.

eatmyworld

Depends where you live.
If you're in Souther California you should be able to find a J girl easily. If not then try hitting Japanese restaurants and making nice with the J waitresses.

Either way, think why they have to be Japanese in the first place.
If it's because of the culture then I suggest you go to Japan and check things out there before you jump to any conclusions.

Oh and that whole "Japanese women are quiet and timid and respectful and polite" thing? That of course is generalizing too much. Not all Japanese women are like that if that's what you're hoping for.