What should you not tell your spouse?

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Pointy

I assume that this question pertains to the "non-voluntary" disclosure of information. I believe that indiscretions must top the list.

In this high-tech world that we now live in, there are many ways, shapes and forms of indiscretions. There is the real world indiscretions and the virtual ones -- those brought about by the infinite possibilities of Internet technology.

IMHO though, when one is confronted by the spouse about any issue, the truth must be told.

Binibini

I'm surprise to hear that some people hide money from their spouse, i think in my own opinion that is just wrong

the only thing i don't tell my husband is that when my dog chew his socks, when i feed my dog under the table.

me and my husband always have an open communication whether we are going to like it or not what we did or what we're going to say.

honesty is always the best policy, having a dirty little innocent secret is not my cup of tea.

one small lies lead to another small lie then it ballons and explode in your face and create stress and trouble.

Gary

sshhhhh...i wear her panties when my briefs are all in the laundry. no choice eh when i had to rush to a board meeting... ;D

tom1941

Once married I do not think couples should have secrets. I have seen situations where things that occured prior to marriage were shared and caused problems and even divorce. Sometimes relationships and situations prior to a marriage are best left in the past where they belong.

Kulet.gal

Nothing. Honesty is still the best policy. We would save the world from a lot of heartaches if we only learn to be straightforward about anything and everything. It's a risk, alright, but it frees you from unnecessary anxiety.

ericka

that im cheating!

Juan C

my bank account...

asimenia

The exact price of things I buy - I always knock a few euros off! I think that's ok - because it saves a shouting match.

I also feel he has no right or need to know every detail of my pre-him days.

Mr.Troglodyte

I have never and would never keep anything from my wife...

If I would take a woman home from work who needed a ride I used to call her and tell her the name of the woman and where she lived and about how long it would take me to take her home from work.

Sometimes if I was going to be awhile like if she needed help moving a piece of furniture I would give the phone to my wife and let the other woman give her, her home phone number.

And sometimes if it was on the way home, I would go by and pick-up my wife and take her to see where the other woman lived so if I had to take her home again, my wife would know.

I hide nothing from nobody...

Keeping anything from a spouce is wrong.

annabelle p

That he is getting older and going eccentric in some ways. That bit about age is a sensitive matter; he doesn't want to be reminded that he is getting on in years although everyday the mirror tells him otherwise. Well, I have to keep my mouth shut lest we start a global war that will not end in our lifetime. hahaha!

windblown

I told her all and will continue not to keep a secret to my spouse. It made our relationship stronger and hopefully it will continue that way.

Cheers.

John J

Tell your wife only what you have to and don't do anything that you would be afraid to tell your wife.

tranquil

That I am a heiress.

My monetary worth should not change the way I am perceived to be.

Football_Fan

Yes honey, that dress DOES make you look fat.

tisya

if it does not concern him,,i agree there are things you have to keep to yourself .and i dont see anything wrong with that...

noldzki

things that would end up our relationship and lose respect to each other. it doesn't make me dishonest. i hope so, hehehe

yeah, sometimes, i find it right. what she doesn't know wouldn't hurt her.... and ME!!! (she hits hard like pacquiao) =)

Bitter Guy

The extra money you make ... i think everyone should keep a secret emergency stash.

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