What would cause you to end a friendship?

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noldzki

i treat my friends as family. my family is my treasure. and i don't want to lose my treasure. and if i lose one, i'll try everything to get it back.

annabelle p

When my friend starts spreading rumors about me that isn't true. That really gets my goat. Tell whatever lies but nothing that will mar my reputation or harm my personal integrity.

â„¦ allan y

loss of trust

Purple Tactics

Betrayal and verbal assaults against my family (physical assaults against my family would lead to death).

pandamgy

Yes, and just kinda stopped answering calls did my own thing. I realized that this girl was my "friend" but she only looked for me when she needed something. Dont need a friend like that.

Soop3rNLuVkJB

Money matters...If only I listened to my other friends...that letting your bestfriend borrowed a pretty good amount of money and trusting him to pay back as he promised would cause strained in a relationship...I think our friendship still exist today...
I just ignored him...but if he just talked to me..then maybe we were able to patch things up...before I left to work overseas...I was just waiting for him to say sorry...but he didn't...I texted him but he hadn't answered my message...now we are totally "the departed"...I dunno if we could still bring back the kind of frienship that we had...only time can tell...

pero_102

never ended any friendship bc all of them were never deep, bc there is a saying "your worst enemy was once your best friend" so i stick to it, not revealing anything that would damage me in some way. But in reverse, i haven't betrayed anyone yet.
Closest friend i may only consider is not a friend at all but my master, God!

ms. Riana

my best friend... he... well... we used to be always together... but then i always paid for everything... from the movie, to the cabs to the food, his clothes... the things he ASKED for... his baon at times... and he ended up borrowing a huge amount from me... like 21k huge.. but i didnt care about that... what tore us a part was the fact that he never had time for me anymore... he was always with his new girl "bestfriend" who was exactly like me, only difference was she has a car... she even looks like me. we both havethe same heritage same look, same background but she studies in a different school. and the only time he would talk to me or notice me was if he needed money. well, long story short, i felt like an atm... and it sucked big time. so i left him. and i dunno i guess he kinda felt threatend wen i reminded him of his debt one day in school... (i stopped studying so i can lend him money. i support myself) i wanted to go back to studying in a different school but i couldnt leave without paying my debt to the school first. next day i got a message from his brother stating

"if you ever come near my brother again, i dont care if your a girl, i will come find you and beat you up."

and to think, all i said was... "hey, i need the money you owe me so i can study again..." and left.

guess it was stupid of me to trust someone that much huh?

ericka

backfigthing because of insecurity. in a friendship, just like any other relationship, somoene is always superior than the other. jealousy arises which breeds insecurity and desire to bring the other person down.

Juan C

traitor!!!

doodlesfl

Yes several times. I've ended up taking care of their kids, feeding them ,taking them places and even buying them things. Only to be lied to, taken advantage of, been babysitting just for their convenience. If the favors and kindness isn't done back to me or I feel like I'm a doormat, then it's not worth the "friendship" which probably wasn't one to begin with. Bottom line is being lied to. Move along.
I did it by confronting her lying daughter, both of them and going to 2-3 different children. They both decided I was wrong even after being proved right . I ended the friendship, avoided being in the same place and I've even changed my daughters ice skating hours to not be around them. Don't answer the phone. If they come over, get in the car and leave, they'll get the hint. Tell them you're busy.
It's okay, leechy people who just want to take advantage of others will find someone else to suck onto and mooch off of . Just for their own advantage.
God bless you on your journey. Do what's right for you. Don't be a doormat for others.

Net

Yes I've ended several friendships that became controlling and too possessive.

St.Elmos Fire

Disloyalty and backstabbing.
Just avoided him for a time until he got the drift.

purple & pink

yes..because of backstabbings.. ;-)

Sea Princess

Betrayal, lies and more lies.

Yes, just last year. After years of friendship, understanding and support. How? I told him off and just moved on.

Just like lost love, there is no use wallowing on lost friendships. Life is too short and too beautiful to wallow in tears or depression or paranoia.

Live life...be happy!

littlemissy

ya..Last yr I was friends with Dina and Shane.I just met them last year but they kno each other since 3rd grade or somthing. I was more close to Dina than Shane. Then this school yr. I made new friends. And Dina had to move to another school for some reason. Since I am more close to Dina it kinda feels awkward talking to Shane and she barely talks to me so I don't talk to her anymore. It made me feel guilty but I am just not that happy when I am with her. so ya

ctelly22

Selfishness and lack of consideration on the other persons part. People that always come to you for help, but have a problem being there when you need it. I had a friendship that ended because our lives took different paths and they became resentful of how my life was turning out.

netz

only one time, and unfortunately with my 2nd cousin. Betrayal is what would make me end any kind of relationship.

T.O. is the real Ocho-Uno

you start fightin and get ticked off and u start fist fightin cuz ur ticked and its hilarious and i laugh my balls off

Neki

Just avoid seeing them...simple as that.

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