What would u do if ur gf tells u that she's bored with u?

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bronzedgal

Ok I know I will get many thumbs down for my answer, and 98% you will not choose me for best answer..but first advice = why submit to the pressure of society to get married? She isn't pregnant right? Neither are you dying to have kids at a young age before you have built your career and have started putting away enough savings to fund your child's education and your retirement.

I think this girl needs a change in the sense that she is just bored of mundane life - and she thinks her life needs a complete overhaul, including dumping her boyfriend and trying to look for a 'better man'. Better in terms of more $$$, smarter, more handsome, nice house, rich family possibly with heritance, big car etc.

She (and possibly you) are at the point in life when you aren't sure where you wanted to be in 5-10 years time in terms of career. So she may just be unsure what exactly is making her feel bored.

First things first, go ask her: does she still love you? (tell her to call you back or meet you and answer ONLY after at least one day, give her time to really think by herself not with you around)

Second: if she answers yes, ask her - is it because she loves you because she needs you? OR, she needs you because she loves you? If she says that the latter is correct, then - she really IS NOT bored with you..she could be fed up with other things like: not having enough hobbies.

Tell her that she should spend more time with her friends, learn new things like maybe join a gym/yoga class, focus on her studies more. Do NOT worry she will abandon you - because if you worry she will feel that you are breathing down her neck by making her hangout with you only.

At the end, if she is not willing to change her habits and wait to see if her feelings for you change. Then I am sorry, her being 'bored' is just an excuse that she doesn't love you anymore.

anderson

get rid of her and find a new one. unless you can find something exciting that can pleased her.
girl at that age is like that, they always want new and exciting things. if you do the same thing over and over again something like this happens.
now you can go out the hotties that you want. that one who always make your nose bleed ler..

some additional advised:-
If your gf heart is not at you, its a bit difficult to win her back unless she really loves you. make her feel jealous a little. if she dont feel jealous then you are in big trouble. beside you are just making friend with the hottie not become her bf, what it has to do if she have a bf a not? in addition can make your gf jealous. its a philology game. if she really dont care about you, then you can consider to move on.
Heart break is common among teens, is a part of growing up.
Wish you luck dude.....

Naruto

Sai-yo-na-ra !

Dude are you sure she didn't see someone?
She might did that on purpose. Make you mad, find a change to up set you and said bye bye to you.

Normally gf will be impress if bf tried to impress her. If she keep said she is boring it might be a warning sign.

Just hope my opinion is wrong.

Â©actâŠâŠaÂ®

The Secret Recipe one? Aww.. you poor thing. It doesn't look too good if she expects you to keep her entertained all the time.
Sure, you can add some spice into your relationship by doing different stuff, but if her attitude is like that, it won't be long before she starts complaining again. You can always try to get her to suggest some activities that you two might enjoy together. Pass the ball to her.
And good luck, buddy.
If all else fail, there's still the hot, new girl..

Malayan Tiger

U should spend less time in front of your PC. Life is waiting to be conquered out there. Give space for both of you, socialise more. Go to a pub have a few beers, meet interesting people after work. Join a fitness club, rifle club, take up sports. The list is nevr ending. Only u can decide whether u want to be a boring or interesting person.

Twiggy

find someone who finds you interesting ;-)

miss5miles

don't call her too often, don't see her too often, don't say i love you too often. do something different, something you two never did before. if it's not working and she leave you, well i'm single... hehe

erlish

"Houston, we have a problem."

Flight Command has this to say:

Try to work out why you are bored.

If you are bored because you are doing something that you have done many times before, then try adding something new or doing it a different way.

If the boring thing is a physical task you need to get done, try doing it to music or listening to a book on tape while you do it.

If the boredom is caused by feeling lazy or tired, take a nap if you can. Most people don't get enough sleep anyway.

If you are rested and still feel lazy try to convince yourself to do just one thing.. something small or short in duration or part of a task.

If you are bored because you feel you can't do the things you want to do then try to think up new ways to do the activity.

If you are bored because you can't think of anything to do then start by getting physically active. This will help you think well.

Be advised to log on to: http://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-Boredom

"You're clear to land!"

ClickMe

Play with her, go to the park and have a nice time with her, tell what she likes most and listen to her, let her laugh or giggle, give her a smile.

or maybe she's bored that it's like going to a place same everyday so you better plan it. good plans means good results!

Matilda

that a sign dude..........
she maybe meet someone.....
someone who she think interesting....
better take action now....

acis

why dont you ask her what does she want you to do? maybe she could suggest something? why dont you flirt with her like the 1st time you two met each other? that could be fun. do something to her that you think excites her, have sometime with just her and nobody else. have a trip to phuket or bali or something. i wish you all the best. if all that wont work out, leave her.haha.

dragonfly

do something crazy, that you wouldnt have even thought of doing.

anything and everything if you want to keep her

or just give up and move on to the next one

andrea v

do something crazy or do somthing that will surprise the heck out of her.

Trustee

Set a plan for settling down, say in 3 years time. Make a proper monthly/yearly plan.

She'll definitely looking forward for the big day & trust me, you & your gf will have thousands of new activities starting from today.

She'll definite won't get bored as all activities are brand new things.

(If she still decided to leave you once you've proposed, that would be her own attitute problem. She will surely experience much more boredom in her future life)

Ola

You should make some different thing maybe a Holiday with her or a small day trip ... I think this is a serious problem if you make nothing...
Give her a rose or make it secretly... Use your imagination.. I dont know your conditions...

Good luck

Ola http://turk.us/

The Man

Be more interesting. Talk all the time about different things, if you run out of things to talk about, you run out of relationship.

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just be like im not boring your the boring one.

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