Whats wrong with me....?

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Stranger On A Bus

Is this the first time you ever feel this way about him? If you're confused whether you still have interest in him or not, you should try to settle the things that first made you feel confused.

From what you mentioned that 'he doesn't question you about why you're acting differently', there might be two possibilities. First: He did cheat on you, he realize that you've seen the picture in his camera and he tries to act normal.
Second: He purposely wants to make you jealous. He just waiting for you to ask who that girl is.

When you see him next time, ask him to bring along the camera and see if the picture is still there or not. If it's there then I guess that you shouldn't worry, because the moment you ask him to bring the camera, he might want to check the camera first and delete all the stuff that he don't want you to see. But still you could ask him who that girl is and see what he replies. However if the picture is not there, there is a possibility that he is cheating on you. Tell him that you saw the picture the other day and ask him who she is. If he's not convincing then I guess you know what you should do.

When you are in a relationship, you and him need to have trust and be honest to each other. However, it's not wrong for you to feel jealous. If you feel something is bugging you, you need to tell him how you feel. Just to make things clear. I mean, you don't want to waste time worrying when there's actually nothing to be worried of, right?

MERI KRISMAS

let musa accompany you...

musa

matlida!!! i miss u..

jangan repot me plzz...

legal_alien247

Feeling a bit jealous is humane. What you were doing on the way home was just you being female.. heheh..
He's buying you stuff.. well.. that's a man thing too..

I think you are being rational by not giving a damn. No need to play up with your mind making up stories. It won't do you any good.

*edit - Oho.. with that jamys detail.. I kind of agree with Shah.. Dump him...heheh.. if he asks why, tell him what the problem is.. If not, then don't bother.
Ask yourself if you really want to ask him any Q... He can create any answer.. to satisfy you.. or to make your life ugly. Is it worth it?

You'll be fine, girl...
In relationship, sometimes you're driving on the rocky roads.. At some intersections you'll decide to turn left and he'll decide to turn right... but you'll get to your destination.. your dream. So, take it easy.. Enjoy the journey.

cheers

booyah

Since you both has commited a relationship.. you have the right to Q him.I would suggest that you stay calm, I mean real calm.
Tell him that you knew about the pix in his camera.
Ask him to come clean .. it's hard to heard what ever come out fr his f**king mouth. But you have to deal with it... Think for yourself.. most importantly ..your future..ask yourself.. what do you want to be...Remember,he is not the only man alive.!!

Deena

It's good that you place so much trust in your boyfriend.. I would do the same for my man too, but sometimes men can take the trust for granted..

If I were you, I would ask him about it casually.. especially since its a picture of a girl in her pyjamas in a bedroom.. that just.. doesnt seem right.. at all...
If he indeed is cheating on you, its best to end it now, dear..

Hmm.. Im actually not trying to give you any advice, cos im not a relationship expert but I just want you to know theres nothing wrong with you..
There are many good answers above and below me, I hope they helped you.. Take good care of yourself, okay..?

Shah

Don't be a s*ut, dump him ! You deserve better.

SpookyFox

First I have to said that I am agree with Shen Yi. (Wow gal, you are good in this.)

It is your right that to ask who in the world she is. My suggestion is try to ask nicely. Don't get emotional, (Try to control it.) ans see what is your boy friend reaction. Then tell him that you still love him. (This is for reminding him)

You have to ask, or else some day you might bring this out and yelling at him. Every time if there is a problem between couple, try to solve once at the time. Don't accumulate it and wait until a day you can't take it any more and you know what would be the result.

I hope this will help. Don't get confuce, get it clear.

VK^

Usually men do not store sensitive pictures like bedroom picture of other girls (except g/f?) in his camera or mobile or laptop.. it might be someone else who used his camera.. so, its better to spend half minute to ask him about picture than not talking with him half day..
Moreover, if he treat you very nicely, you think something wrong.. if he treat you normally, you will probably think you are no more special to him and if he treat you badly, you will think you are nothing for him .. so, what you expect from him? give him some space as well. ;)

Wasabee^Love

if i were you, i'll ask him who the girl is and what is her picture doing in his camera and save all the trouble

by the way darl..you do give a damn who she might be, sometimes guys tend to act nice when they are trying to hide something...best way? confront him..and there is NOTHING wrong with you.The right question is ' What is up with him?'

Edit : If i were you, he'll get more than 3 hours of nagging..he'll get the boot!

Hey Matilda , where are you from ?

Edit : oooh ok :) don't torture yourself k, just ask him what you need to ask. be honest. it is ok to be jealous.

â˜… Cik Yaya â˜…

your story reminded me of my 3rd ex boyfriend.
same story....and we ended with breakup cos he had another girl. I dumped him. it was 2 years ago...and now he wanted to come back to me. but sorry sayang, im already taken.

b!daDar!

well,i've faced dis b4,n its better 4 u to ask who's dat gurl n dun trust all the thing he said..hey,my ex done dat to me..n we broke up 5 months aftr i ask about dat gurl in his hp..
bout ur feelin, i think u feel dat way bcoz u have doubt on him..

sarah the cat's mummy

it's ok to feel jealous. i would too.

i think your feeling of indifference towards the woman picture might as well be one way of you as a woman to protect yourself from being hurt by your boyfriend.

if this kind of things happen to me, i would react like you did. stop talking and act dumb not because i don't love him, but because i'm terrified if he is indeed cheating on me. therefore, i know that i will so suddenly stop feeling anything for 2 weeks and start building the strength and confidence in my heart....and i would say...''so who cares if he cheats, i will find somebody else''......but later when 2 weeks are aready over, i will miss him back, and feel hurt if he does have other woman.

or maybe i'll act that way because i don't want to involve with any cheater.

and maybe i've just had enough.the thought that he might cheat, the thought that the other woman is better....when i couldn't bear to go through things like this, i will lose interest

i hope you can relate my experience with yours.

however, ask your bf who was that woman. maybe it's just any friend of him.

Bo.$$

go get some guy's photo into your camera and see what's his reaction

Jedi Sapiens

There is a possibilities that he is interested on that girl, sometimes when we are boring with chocolates we take vanilla ice cream. Or it's just a picture to remind him about her. Don't be too sensitive,i ask you now if you have a picture of Justin Timberlake in your laptop does it mean that you love him more than your bf obviously answer is no am i right , because you love your bf so much.

hu hu pyjamas guarantee suda kena tapou

JaMeShi

Did anyone borrow his camera? You'll never know..

GarisHalus

To be honest ... i only save a picture of a girl/woman that i like/attracted/dream .... but sometimes ... i save my fren's gf's pictures too ... because they are pretty.

and in your situation ... i think you should ask him who is that girl ...

*My gf had a 2 hours conversation with her x-bf ... i discovered from a telephone bill ... from that day ... i have no more 100% trust on her ...

Niki323

What are you doing looking in his camera? Do you mistrust him? If you were looking at my pics without permission, I'd be pissed! Maybe it's his cousin, or maybe the pics are old, or maybe they're another girl. But obviously there's something else going on in this relationship if you're snooping in his camera. Maybe it's time to re-examine the relationship or move onto someone you can trust.

azayi1

give him back what he deserved..

Quixote's back

you are in a situation of jealousness.............

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