Papa Chuck's Trophy Wife
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No way! These men will never be respectable in the eyes of society no matter how hard they try to gain respect and recognition because eveybody with the exception of devious men considers these relationships a fraud that is fueled by his money and her lack of money.
There is only one reason and that is they are both using each other. It is not respectable and most people other than the very small minority of people that themselves do it think that it is a disgrace and a shame to society.
Only the most pathetic of men would use women the way that these guys do to satisfy their perverted and devious sexual desires.
The fact that these guys must travel to 3rd world countries to take advantage of these impoverished women tells me that they are sociopaths and can not fit into mainstream society. |
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We are not terrorists يا عيني
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No less respectable than any other relationship. Each relationship any where in the world is not only based on love but on a number of other factors. Marriage is a contract between two people, and each brings to the couple his or her value.
Physical appearance and beauty, age, financial and social status, etc., are only factors that come in the equation, and who are you to judge the weight of each of these factors?
I think it is despicable for people to judge these relationships with their own value system. Just mind your own business and let people be, they are decent human beings respectful of each others. |
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PerpetualTraveller
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Well, I guess it depends on his looks. If he looks like a bald hippopotamus with tufts of grey hair still left in some parts here and there, and she looks like a little butterfly, then well, it is an odd couple. If he looks like Arnold Schwartzenegger or Silvester Stallone at 60, no one will give them a second look.
And if they are legally married and gave vows in church before God, he who disrespects them disrespects God and the church.
Also do keep in mind that men can make children till they are ninety, but women go through menopause and cannot have children anymore after late forties/early fifties. The woman is fertile at 22 but not at 60. And it is hard for a woman to give birth after 30- the baby may not be as healthy. Men and women are not the same.
It is legal and biologically Ok, so what is wrong with that?
Plus if he is a nice person, who cares? |
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I'dStillPreferNoName
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Yeah. Mind your own business. I am sure you are just jealous. You will understand later on and wishing that you can have a young, pretty and sexy lady at your age of 60 coz nobody loves you that age especially when your attitude is like this, (himantayon). |
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harryt62
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It has nothing to do with him not being able to get a GF in his own country. He wants a sexy young wife and he knows he can find one in the Philippines. And for her, she wants a rich man to take care of her and her family and she finds a rich old guy and marries him.
They are using each other to get what they want. If they are satisfied with the situation then it is no one's business.
I may not like it but, when I am old, I'll do the same thing.
Way to go old dude! |
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pacific storm
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I don't have any problem with that. Do you? What is "unrespectbale" in marriage? |
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Juan C
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fine with me... |
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✿ einchen ✿
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FILAMUSA, you're on a roll again (^_~).
Why would that couples' age difference be a factor if they are worthy or respect in the society or not?
All person in this world is worthy of respect unless they deliberately hurt or disrespect anyone.
Fact of life is we all chose our mates and whom we want to be, we chose who satisfies us with love, care, and everything that matters to us. |
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Joe
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I think you judge too harshly. If you don't know these people how can you judge what their feelings or motives are? You assume an awful lot to be so ignorant. I'm one of those old bald americans you hate so much. I'll have you know that I married the oldest single filipina I could find that wasn't worn out and still she's 14 years younger than me. I'll also have you know....if I hadn't met her and matched up so well, I too could have easily married as many 18 or 19 year-olds I want and it aint none of your business. Unless it's your sister you see with that old man, butt out. |
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Winter
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definitely not! but that's their business and I'm out of it. I just don't like it when Filipino and non-Filipino people generalize all Filipina as being a whore just because they are with white guys! There are so many whores in the world that could be Russian, Indian, Chinese, Japanese, vietnamese name it. Can he still make it hard?! :) lol |
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vannili
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Of course no one wants to be married to an old man,but it is necessity to be married even to an old man who can give the woman a decent life and a good future and help her family to have some food on the table, and more important for her to bear children, that is respectable not just in my eyes but my feelings too ,than to be a kabit by a young married man, in the Phillipines which is very common. |
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Inpeach
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As long as the 60 year old guy knows and accepted why the 22 year old lady is with him and they do not do anything immoral in public or cringy (like kissing in public ) then its their own business . We do not judge so we won't be judge . |
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uncle evil
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as a 30year old man i married a 56 year old asian woman.i had the us citizenship ,the money,and the knowledge nessesary to have a successful life in the usa.she had charm,dignity ,and made me smile.we had eleven wonderful years.she was occasionaly confronted by other asians here who found our relationship offencive.she just said i have a husband i love,who supports me in anything i want to do.a nice home in a stable country where my son is in school to have an even better life.i have concidered pusuing a pinay second wife,but the qualities of woman i miss so much have been lacking in the husband hunters i've met.judge not less ye be judged and judged lacking. |
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carnelionne
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I will admit that I assume the man in question couldn't find a wife in his country and went abroad to find a poor young woman who is willing to marry for a new and more financially stable life (maybe to help out family), and not for love. Because quite frankly, it's hard to believe that a 22 year old finds a 60 some year old guy appealing, unless it's Sean Connery or Harrison Ford, and even then... Well.. It's hard not to think that way. |
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Iris
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its like pedophile in a legal way haha. But hey a lot of Filipinas likes to have kids that are half breed so its not just for money. They always have dreams that they will have handsome/beautiful healthy babies to brag about ( from what I heard). Anyways, if living with an old guy makes them more secured than to be with a younger irresponsible man (barkadista) then, ill say go for the old guy at least it wont give you headache hehe.
And no my husband is not an old fart. We're actually the same age but I guess im just lucky to have a guy like him who is a very family oriented person and not a barkadista thanks god... |
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yuanyuan
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Of course. They are married, so that is respectable. You have a problem w/ it?
Sure it is a bit odd, but it is nobody's business. |
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marie fe
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yes, bacause age doesnt matter i believe in that |
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M J
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it's ok with me , it is their business |
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heartburn
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you will wander how it happened |
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sbrown966
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Sure |
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monique d
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we're not whores! you dummy!
Those filipinas are kinda like prostitutes.
I swear, Im telling the truth.
They don't have money so they use those old American men to have money though.
OOPS!
BUT IN SOME CASES
there are few filipinas who truly love American men. OK? |
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Pacificriders
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I immediately think, loser, since they cant find a wife/GF in thier country that they go to a third world country to find one. and they usually look like a pedophile when they walk down the street. |
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