
PC
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Introductions please. Seriously they are just doing what we men have been doing for so long, more power to them. |
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Wh*n N**d*d
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It is mainly because of what the young ones saw in the movie, tv and even read in the magazine. Media is a big contributor of the changes in human's life, it is what we saw in the movie that we think is a trend in todays generation. And friends influence most of it. |
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babyblueboxerbriefs
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Casual sex? Where?
Seriously, why is it a big deal that women do that now? If a woman made the first move, does it make you any less macho? But, if you're talking about Filipinas, I figure it has a lot to do with the Westernization of the Philippines. If you're asking about women in general, successes in feminist movements, TV, movies, and other media that depict the strong woman to be sexy are culprits, but not entirely. Education has also empowered women everywhere. I think some women just have a hard time negotiating the line between "strong and liberalized" and "just plain slutty". The line, after all, is very much dependent on the taste of those around her.
There are still a number of Maria Claras around, but I think a little more spunk is more interesting. |
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tisya
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women are now co equal of men thus women can do what men can...and im not happy about it in that aspect. |
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Bitter Guy
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Because women deserve to live how they want to live ... equal rights.
Men can also do that without people raising eyebrows |
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Kat
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Hollywood has a lot to do with it. Filipinos love imitating what they watch. |
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anna m
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liberation, democracy & free will :) |
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LL Cool J
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I think older women who know who they are will make the first move. Some older women want a much younger guy (10 years maybe) to nail them really good. There will be no attachment. |
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jench
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I think maybe because women nowadays are liberated & more adventurous...and on the other hand, men nowadays seldom rejects women that offers casual s*x... |
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Bink2Go
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Point me to one!! |
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clncarplz
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It sounds like you are (reverse) sexist it is OK for the man to make the 1st move but not the man! Casual sex can be an enjoyable thing & women might like it as much as men do. |
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Elvira
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because a lot of women are empowered to do so. men aren't the only one's wearing the pants and i think some men are intimidated by a successful woman. |
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Noypi
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they wanna make sure that your stirring rod works.hehehhe!
There's a theory that all the hormones that they give cows and chickens that get absorbed into things we eat like steak and milk and things like that have affected our sex drives in the past 50 years. This is why girls are going through puberty a lot sooner than they used to 10 years ago.
It's just a theory.
I personally think the media's messed up our heads. especially for celebrities like paris hilton,britney spears and the likes that makes it an in thing to do nowadays. |
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Xulian
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Because they want to experience a lot things (what guys want/are doing too) before they settle down. In a few cases, some women are not thinking about themselves, their future, they just want to do anything they want to do without thinking. some are just copying what they see on TV, they think it is applicable wherever they are. Lastly, most of them maybe just want to have sex because nowadays virginity is not a requirement to marry someone. |
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blitzkrieg
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because if we don't many of us will wither away in self pity as our more attractive peers bask in the attention of their suitors. also waiting that long would make one resort to arranged marriage. enough said? |
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still
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How many is your "lots"? Maybe in the vicinity/locality where you frequently visit, women do; but where I am, never heard of girls making the first move.
In my opinion, girls that make the first move are desperate..Pretty girls/women never ran out of admirers, hence never has to plead for dates or male company. |
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maej
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casual sex? first move?
not in a million years! |
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dave i am
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Sex and the City is the culprit I might say.... |
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awaken.dawn
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It was Eve who ate the forbidden fruit first..... |
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the italian idol
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you're watching too many rated r xxx movies and reading too many fantasy stories from fhm and other sexy mags. yeah right. like how we did it in the library...we were alone in the lrt train at night...how my nympho yaya raped me when i was ten...my sexy condo neighbor asked for coffee and asked me in for breakfast. buwang! |
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Anathema Device
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Why not? I don't see anything wrong with that as long as they're practising safe sex. |
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Mr. Brightside
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well, that's because they think they would end up in a commitment. they're actually in for the emotional aspect of casual sex, whereas guys commit casual sex to boost their ego. |
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Slide
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They become slutty nowadays an exact equivalent to horney men. All is fair in sex and love , but make sure not hurt someone else's feeling when you do it. |
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looking 4 a summer job
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where? whoa... is this true? all my friends are Maria Clara types... |
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anonymous
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feminism. |
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vilz
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for women power!!!! |
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heartburn
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because men are running out |
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