Why does my filipino girl friend spend 10 minutes in cr room when we go out to the bars,she?

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homesweethome

Im a filipina who married a foreigner. There are some filipinas who spend a long time in the cr. not just filipinas but other women of all races too. but with on how you describe her for being an x bar girl you probably should know her better. She might have something going on that's why she's always on the phone. check on her background. And the sending money thing. If it's your own well to send money that's good but if she's asking you to send her money and telling you drama about how hard her life is or someone is sick in her family..blah!blah! she's just using you. Im a filipina and i shouldn't be saying this but that's the truth.

Fwine Slu

If I were you, I'd get out of the relationship. If you don't trust someone, you won't be living comfortably together for long time. If she loves you, she won't just reply "busy", she may have other reasons beyond that. Let go of her then let her do the chasing.

In the Philippines, I notice that women will take time in front of the bathroom mirror retouching their face powder, reapplying lipsticks, and spritzing some body sprays after emptying their bladder so that may explain the 10 minutes bathroom time.

Î© allan y

she just wants to get respite from the noise, smoke, crowd, you...

trust, like condom, is effective. but if you don't have it then don't do it.

canfield205

She's probably calling her REAL boyfriend.

Johny

Mate take it from someone who knows the bar scene inside and out that she is just using you. If she brings her mobile then she is for sure contacting her friends or her other steady boy friend. You have to realise the two of you are just in the relationship because of the two benefits. She gives you sex and the attention I'm sure you want and her in turn gets your money and I would imagine can make you do things for her. Since I'm sure your only there for a month or two in the year she has the rest of the year to do what she wants especially when your financing this.

They are really good at making foreigners fall in love with them because they are trained extremely well when they are in the bar scene. I'm sure she is a lovely girl but that doesnt change the fact since you wrote this question you yourself have doubts about this relationship. A smart person would move on and find another nice girl without the bar past. There are plenty mate all you gotta do is look abit more and you'll be alot better off. You can't have a future with this girl as the trust really isn't there and I'm sure your only in it just for the sex side of things. If I'm wrong then by all means ignore my advice but if I'm one bit right about anything then think long and hard because your only wasting your valuable time that you aren't going to get back mate.

Asian4Life

I smell a troll ^_^ am I right?

pero_102

i say all those who fall in love to ex or bar girls are either fools or stupid.
all bar girls, no exception,are only after your money. If she really is in you, she will provide you the money or would not spend luxuriously your money. When a man has no money or can't provide materials or other benefits for them, man is as good as a tramp. That's why society abhor them. They are worst than parasites. They suck your lifeline and leave you when you are broke or some other will provide better for her..
i feel pity for you, really.

Ian B

My dear friend, don't waste your time and money on her. A bar girl is good in bars, not at home. I take it you're British or australian (bloke).
Blokes deserve better than a bar girl. Knock it off already.

girlie

10-minute bathroom break is normal for girls, esp. if we're bar-hopping. but if she goes more frequently and longer too, then maybe it's something else. if you have doubts, better have it out in the open soon. maybe it's time for a clean break.

fibro32

it's a common and most usually used routine/excuse to spend the least time as possible with someone they don't really like to be with.

britart

Reading between the lines, you already know what's going on, have the balls to call time on this relationship and find a decent woman who hasn't been round the block a few times

Barrio Lass

does she eat a lot but SLIM?

if so, it could be a sign of bulimia, you know.... BULIMIA.

she could be binging and purging... sorry pal!

she NEEDS help!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bulimia_nervosa

sari-manok

shes just adjusting her retainer. give her a break. seriously, most girls spend a lot of time in the rest room.

Diamond

if your asking why she spends along time in the bathroom its cuz girls talk to each other they fix there makeup and hair and they stand around.

they do not realize your waiting for them.

Hot Head

she maybe applying a feminine deodorizer, just getting ready for the next round... don't trust this kind of s l u t

Dina

Stop sending her money - just tell her you can't afford to do it anymore, and see if she still wants to be your girlfriend. Her response will tell you more than anyone on this forum could.

Do you really love her or is it just loneliness? The longer you stay in this relationship, the worse your heart will get broken, so it's best to find out now whether she loves you or she loves the fact that you send her money. Trust is an essential part of any functioning relationship and if you don't trust her, it won't work out no matter how much you love her.

So many nice sweet educated virgins looking for a foreigner and the best you can do is a bar girl?
You have a lot more problems than a cheating girlfriend. Seek professional help.
BTW I don't believe a word of it. Still even as a child playing games you are one sick puppy.

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