Will you fall in love with somebody who knows all your gory past?

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Inday

Love is not a past tense affair....love is present and future tenses....love is kind and forgiving....and yeah, somebody will fall madly in love with you, inspite of the "gory past"! Just remember this..."today" means another beginning, another chance to make beautiful memories. Cheers!

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KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!
YOU WANT THE TRUTH?
YOU! HE! THEY! CANT HANDLE THE TRUTH!

jicarlo h

sounds like you have some deep dark secerts

rose_merrick

That's the best type to go for! Why sleep with someone if you wouldn't trust them to know everything about you? Everyone comes with a history. We are too busy trying to make life like the films, worrying about cosmetics, and forgetting about REAL life and real issues.

smithers

Describe your gory past and see if the individual gets aroused or angry, surely you want a person who excepts what ever journey you've taken and if they do share all that wonderful accumulated knowledge and the smile wont leave their face.
Never apologise for who you are, if we all took the same route what a dull world this would be.

Devastated

It's probable...
Love is blind, honey.
And love can be deaf too.

Kirsty

i agree with louie3, i made the same mistake, have the same problems and live to regret it.......

rodman91

You could either do one of two things. One, do not mention your past at all unless asked, and two, if you do mention your past, do not be "economical" with the truth unless you are a perfect liar.

Once somebody gets to truly know the other, they know when one or the other is lying.

If i was you, i'd come clean and tell everything, and if that person you tell can accept your past, then you know they'll accept you no matter what.

Be "economical" with the truth like some people have done, you're being selfish and you don't deserve that special.

louie3

no never-i made the mistake of telling my husband things i had done, things that have been done to me. now he throws them back in my face every time we have an argument. there are still things in my past which he doesnt know and i would never tell him. if i ever had another relationship i would keep all my secrets to myself...although he would probably tell my new partner everything anyway so i might as well stay wherfe i am!

FILAMUSA

I think you just have a crush. No need to tell them. You would know it if they liked you the same way.

........but what do you have to loose?

Tell him you have a crush on him or you want to date him. You will surely make his day :)

windblown

Let him fall for you and do not tell him, you love him. You can go out with him more often but wait for the time that he will love you for what you are. If successful, agree that no matter what happens in the future, he will not take it against you. Maybe you made mistakes in the past but put that behind you and learn from it.

Do not lose the virtues of charity, hope and love. Besides, there is a saying "love conquers all'. I still believe in that. Criticize me for this but I am (what they say to me) a hopeless romantic. lol

It would not be easy but give it your best shot.

Good luck.

kibbs

Yes you can but the question is-- can that person fall love on you despite all the bad things you did?

Raven

well, yes. if love is that strong enough to be with that person. it doesn't matter if she knows my past. it also doesn't matter what we should accomplish in the future. it's important what we are doing here today, holding each other's hand. and saying one's dreams and of course, loving each other

trishiehotgirltrishie

open your mouth and tell them how you feel if you dont you will never know good luck

Prudie

Hey, don't forget that the person who will fall in love with you has a past too. We all should learn from our past, maybe not to be proud of our mistakes, but after all, the person NOW is what counts, and is a product of your past. Try to learn to forgive yourself and live life to the fullest.

i go loony

If that gory past is nothing to him, I may...

Tropic-of-Cancer

Sorry only one way to find out, and that is to let him know how you feel about him:

What is your opinion about you and me? Is the usual gambit I believe.

Not all men, and not all women are the same. They expect different things. Sometimes where there is a lot of history, there is a feeling by the other person that they won't remain faithful.

jan-na~â™¥~ and im luvin it

it's okay to fall in love even if he knows your past. the question is will he accept your past?

Zoeksalamander

I think you changing things round, I think the main question should be, if your past is really as horrible as you make it out to be, will the other person still fall in love with you.

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