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â™¦Chimera Meerkatâ™¦

Well there can be many reasons, maybe she's really occupied and not ready for another date. In dating, it can be a game but it can also be really not available, just depends on how you tackle the situation.

I once rejected a date, due to flu and final exams & got accused as playing hard to get. Thn. the guy kept calling whn I was down wth flu & fever, seriously put me off. Hope you ain't like tht. So put on your thinking cap :) & if you really like her, you'll have to play the game of seducing & tolerating her.

For your case, you'll never know until you try again. Everyone's different.

dley00

no, that is playing games. would you want someone to play with you? Now if you have something else planned, thats different. Tell them you can't this time you already have plans but would love to some other time.

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normally if i like him and he like me to i never reject for second date ,but i still have other technique to play hard to get..

JuNiPeR SixTeEn

depends on the time not too soon but since i like him,i wont reject him when he asked me for a date

jimmy

Hmmm....dangerous game. The man will be getting another one...2nd date rejections means "sorry, you are are not my type ..."

Dr.Jellyfish

Let me tell you a secret...

Yes, us women do this sometimes just to play hard to get, to see if he will ask us a second time or not. If a guy only asks you once, then perhaps he not all the interested!

hushpuppy

i asked him to come straight away!!

alisya

I will reject him politely,but if I really likes the man I will go for the 2nd date.

anderson

i would say get into Bollywood dance and play hide & seek behind coconut trees

Â©actâŠâŠaÂ®

If I like him and he likes me, I'd happy to see him again.
It's only a date, not like he asked me to marry him!

Cheekedee

Certainly no. Iâ€™m â€˜easyâ€™ towards the one I loveâ€¦ Ahaksâ€¦

white_dove0902

if both like each other then its ok go on the 2nd and 3rd and so on date ...until kahwin loh !

maej

that depends on the first we've had.

If it was fun, I certainly would like to go with him again but if it was a disaster, who would want to repeat a disaster?

gee... I don't play hard to get... if i want it, I go for it and that's it!

No. I won't. It's just fireworks(!!) from there... then happily-ever-after!

Mimi gafield

Not really If i like him for sure happy for 2nd date but not so soon!

sugar cane

well if i like him why would i want to reject the second date????

yuanyuan

accept of course. i don't play hard-to-get to a man i like. why should i?

aUDREy TTT

It really depends on situation..

If I like the man, of course my heart is dying to see him again.
Depending on the date of the 2nd date... just in case I have something coming up. But one thing for sure is that if I have another appointment on the date he mentioned, I will not postpone the appointment just to see him again.

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Purple Lemon

yes to see if the guy will make a second attempt. The second attempt will mean that he's not playing with me. I'll go when he ask the second time if I really like the guy. If not, I wont give him any 'hope' because it'll hurt him.

Prophecy of Crazy Cat!

personally, i wont do that, coz i like the man and the man likes me too. so whats the point playing with his heart? unless, you have something else to do on the particular day, you should apologize and set a new date.

if you wanna play hard-to-get....you should do it from the very beginning. not the 2nd, the 3rd date and so on. that is so unkind. you're gonna make him look bad and wonder "what did i do wrong? she was very nice to me before and now she rejected me?!". men dont like that.

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