Would you rather forget and be happy...?

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dyelai

remembering and be sad has always been my key to be a better and stronger person as i am now.

freeverse

Sometimes I do the 'motivated forgetting',but I don't think this is healthy psychologically.So it's ok to remember and be sad than have an Alzheimer's.

siopaO

yes...whats the use of remembering it if the only thing it will give me is sadness...

Î© allan y

yes, if only i could be gifted with selective amnesia.

Angel-ene

forget and be happy...

nothing compares to a happy life....

cookiemonster75

tsk.. if only i can forget about my guy best friend and just be happy without him in my life.. then my bf and i wont be arguing right now. :(

unfortunately, i cant...

Juan C

...to remember and be sad...

at least, I won't be forgetting the things I learned about life...

diwata

Happiness is a voyage. Think positively for all sititaion, It would not happen if it is the will of the Lord.

Hot Chick

reminds me of that poem "Remember" from christina geogina rossetti..

Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.

i love that :)

Danielle

Id rather be remembering something and be sad because at least I will know how to learn from my mistakes and never do the same thing that I am aware that I will be sad of

maej

I can never forget nor would I like to be sad.

Let's put it this way, I'd rather accept, take the pain now, move on and be happy.

Admit it, you can never be happy unless you accept and you can never forget unless you forgive.

under_oz

It depends.

If it's going to affect your guilt, I rather remember and be sad.

Because I have to do something about it rather than allowing it to haunt me forever.

Bandit

Life moves forward. Let your avenging angel do the remembering.

annabelle p

Yes, I would. But sometimes, I can't help remembering the sad things or moments in my life. It is in recalling them, from time to time, that reminds me I am not infallible - that I am simply human and as such, is prey to weaknesses and frail emotions. It is in remembering them that provides me strength to continue on my life's journey.

sweet water

there'll be enough sadness ahead, therefore whenever possible, i choose to be happy. i'd much rather forget, to attain closure and move on.

empty_box

happy because it is what we are aiming in life and happiness is memorable

Clarisse

Yes and I was never to think of it when I have my own problems,worries,depression and a lot more and always smile when we will feeling of our own tiredness and always to pray a lot and we will just to thanked God was giving a lot of our strength and a lot of our blessings,always a positive thinking and be happy with our loved ones.

Grim R

no it will stay in my head

dave i am

I always forget and often happy.. lol

kokey14

yes, but it is one of the hardest thing to do!

Aref H4

To be happy and forget is clinically unsound. Means a possibility exists you might forget to breathe.

Therefore, it is preferable to remember even such tragic events in life(e.g., that last bottle of beer is gone), and be sad about it, for it reminds you to buy replenishment. And once drunk, you are once again rendered happy, forgetting whatever it was that made you sad, which was the thought of liquor running dry in the first place.

Rather a vicious cycle this life is.

Lionel M

it all depends on the situation and incident that you have been thru,so its a split of yes and no to your question

looking 4 a summer job

I would rather learn and move on, but given that it is not part of the choice you have given above, I would rather be happy. not so good to be sad. strive to be happy and comfortable, even with the sadness, and the sorrows, and the failures, strive for the learning and the opportunity to have learned.

be happy, smile and live life fully.

|\|\r. YusO

Of course, just forget it and be happy. Who wouldn't want to be happy anyway?

matt limuel o

forget and be happy.

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