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C.C

Sounds like when you drink you become obnoxious. Thats when people would be paying out on you. Its probably nothing to do with your marraige, but people know thats what pushes your buttons so they use that to p*ss you off. Stop drinking and go to ATODS. (alcohol,tobaccoandotherdrugservices) and get some free advice on how to control your drinking.

Anon Ymous

I think your exaggerating with the wife thing... if anyones says things like that they are probably joking... as for the drinking go to AA meetings or try cut down. Its not natural at all!

one love

ashamed

its not nature to ruin someones LIFE

Francis H

You should be ashamed of yourself. It would appear that you virtually had an arranged marriage: brought a girl over and married her. You had the choice to select - she did not. Have some sympathy for your wifes feelings. She has actually done you a big favour. Treat her with respect. Stop drinking and feeling sorry for yourself because you think you are wierd. You probably are VERY wierd. How you met is personal and can be disguised for the sake of your sad self and your wife. Say you met in NY where your wife was learning English or something normal. STOP feeling sorry for yourself!! I lived in Malaya and Borneo for 6 years and I think that some Filipino girls are really beautiful. They are very caring and gentle. Do not loose what you have by your own stupidity.

cubalishus

Why do you give a damn what anyone thinks of you, its your business and your life, don't let anyone do you down, get help for your drinking via your GP.

Ed Anger

If people are causing you so much grief that you need to drink, then theses aren't the people you should be around. Focus on your marriage. If you allow others to dictate your actions, then you are going to ruin your marriage - if you haven't already.

Cailz

It depends what you have done to supposedly ruin that persons life, i don't think it is natural but like i said depending on what has been said or done, i can't say whether you should be ashamed or not.

Hit The Road

Listen to me and me alone here ! You are not at the mercy nor judgement of anyone else. Make the very most of your positive gifts and your marriage, regardless of the mere circumstances of however it came about. Treat your wife with love and honour her with respect and dedication to both your happiness and success.
Alcohol. The absolute plague of modern man. No person or situation can or ever will be enhanced by alcohol. Put it down and leave it alone totally. From today. It is an absolute destroyer and will not bring you anything but misery and loss. Ignore what others may say or think of you.
I will repeat again, put away the alcohol permanently. Ask Jesus for strength and guidance and it will come to you.

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