I'm in such a dilemma, please, please give me some advise?

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The Hawkmeister

THIS IS THE BEST ADVICE EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GO TO AUSTRALIA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2kool4u

I can't advise you but I can tell you how to make up your mind.

Think carefully through the two alternatives, i.e. going to Oz or staying at home. Which of them gives you a feeling of peace, progress and inspiration (like a kind of quiet excitement)? That's the one to go for.

The other one will give you a sense of depression or boredom when you think about it.

At some stage you're going to have to talk it through with him anyway.

NB Could he come to Oz with you?

Heyvenn

Follow your love.places can go anytime.

â™¥*cassie&babygeorge*â™¥

if you mean that much to him he will wait for you, the best things are worth waiting for. the only way you will see if he is really worth the wait is to go to Oz and as much as you may miss him, save the best for last! lol very cheesy but oh wel.

you barely know the guy so dont giv up your chance to go traveling, he will prob respect you for this. if he doesnt he isnt worth it

Amanda

umm, tricky one. Well youve only been together for 2 months, so its not like youve been together forever. However maybe tell him how you feel, if he feels the same he will wait for you. dont give up your dream of travelling for something that may not work out in the future, you only live once.

Good luck

jumpinjups

go to australia! and he can come visit? or u can go visit? if its meant to be it will work out!

Sazzy

Go with your original plans to visit Oz, you'll only regret it after setting your heart on it for so long. If he is 'The One' he will wait, and the bond between you both will grow stronger while apart. If he is not 'The One' then it will fail before you come back. There is your answer. My current relationship was a long distance one at the start, and we are still together after 2 and half years. With e-mails you can keep in touch so easily. And don't forget that writing and receiving romantic letters worked for our ancestors all those years ago...and love is the same today as it was then...Have a good trip

Linda

Ohmygod! what a difficult decision to make! I think it totally depends on the kind of person you are. I always follow my heart... When I fell in love with my current boyfriend, I also had plans to move to another country but couldnÂ´t after meeting him. Eventually we moved together and itÂ´s turned out perfectly well. We both know weÂ´ve found our soul mates and could never part with each other. So I made the right decision. My cousin on the other hand also had plans of taking a leap year travelling and left her boyfriend behind with promises that heÂ´d wait for her... he didnÂ´t and sheÂ´s been really miserable and regretting it.

Unfortunately you donÂ´t have a crystal ball! I think that deep down you know what you really want, donÂ´t you? If you had to chose one of your options and lose the other one forever, which would it be?

Alice

How long are you planning to stay away for? Does he feel the same way? maybe he could join you on your travels even just for a short time. Talk with him. Is he willing to wait for you? If he feels the same way that you do I am pretty sure that he would wait. Good Luck (P.S. You are still young! Don't give up or "Settle" because you feel time is not on your side!)

angel

Go to Australia. The chance may never come up again and you will regret it for the rest of your life. Seems to me you are the restless type. Who is to say that you may get itchy feet in another 2 months and resent your new partner.

Penny J

here's a suggestion; give yourself 6 more months. if it doesn't work out with the guy during that time then pack up and come down under. If it does then bring him with you. Hey somebody to share expenses!

pixie

Australia, he can visit, phone, text, emails.
Travel before you get married and have kids because once you do that's it for years.

cubalishus

Oh big dilemma, but I would opt for Australia and ask him to go with you, if he doesn't you have your answer, if he does good luck.

Michael M

Well after spring Australia is closed forever so if you thought about falling in love with this guy, forget it! you will never be able to get another visa. Australia dont except couples in love, period. and forget the idea about going as a family, having babies was a capital offence in 1942 thats why theres only 18 million Australians, at the turn of the next century that will have shrunk to just 4 people.

Gary K

Go. Seriously, you'll regret missing out on the experience if you don't.

My now brother-in-law had planned 6 months in NZ, and met my sis a while before he went. She went out for a month half way through his stay, they got engaged there & are now happily married!

Annje

Go to Australia. Shorten the trip if need be. Or buy an open ticket.

He will be there when you get back if he is the right one. It may also give you time to think about it. A friend of mine when she was proposed to went on a short holiday to clear her head and think about marriage and if that is what she wanted and it was and she is happily married! He may not be the one but he may be - but a holiday shouldnt hurt the relationship if he is the right one. May make the heart grow fonder.

Another thought is could he go with you?

sophie d

Go to Australia!!!!!

You'll regret it forever if you don't.

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