Please help? Should i stay or should i go?

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iansand9876

Invite him along.

mose

Stay. Australia will always be there and you can always go later on, in a few years together if it works out, or on your own if it doesn't, Only you will know if it would break your heart to leave him if you think it will you know the anwser.

Good luck.

Hey there,
have u had this time is luck and life is short.i think if i were you i will sit down with him and tell him about my plans and also ask him his, bear in mind that he may not be as open as you would like and you will need to read btn the lines.If you two were meant for each love have a weird way of finding people(love will bring you two together,i stongly believe that).if you go and he really cares about you im not saying will be easy but he will wait for you and if he cant may be even if you decided to stay you wouldnt keep him from doing whataever he wanted.You owe that atlest to yourself the adventure that you planned(this was/is for you).A year might seems like eternity now but its not.so think about yourself and how much you wanted this for you,how much its means.LIFE IS LIKE A BOOK ,THOSE WHO DONT TRAVEL DONT GET TO READ.i hope i hv bn of any advise.

fidgetyfingers

Stay - might be the love of your life and you could regret it if you leave. Good luck.

Spartan

I would go to oz and enjoy yourself, may be the only chance you will get, there is plenty of time for relationships and as its only been a few months that you have known this fella and far to early to tell where its going, go to oz have the time of your life, there are plenty of fish in the sea

Rhona M

Definately go. If he's the one then it'll work anyway! You don't want to regret not going in 20 years time when you're married with kids etc!! I was in the same position 6 years ago and went and had a ball.

Vixie

Personally, I would go, it is a life changing experiance, one you may never get again, yes you will keep saying but what if...but you will say that regardless of either decision you make...
A trip like this alters ones perception of the world, whats important, whats essential...I would grab the opportunity.

However, it is your ultimate decision, take your time, and...if you have any free tickets, I would happily oblige in taking it of your hands!!! x

Katie

Go he'll be there when you get back!!

Dont miss out on this opportunity you may never get the chance again!

storm ahead

Go. if you really have that something special,he will be waiting for you or travel with you.If you do not go and you do end up together it may be one of those things you allways bring up,i could have gone to Oz if it wasn't for you.Do you really want that?

But Why??

Go on OPRAH.

kr_afol

Going away for a year will probably show you if the relationship is the real thing or not. If you both stay constantly in touch through the year with your feelings unchanged, you've found the real thing. If he loses interest once you are away, he was not the real thing.

Even if he can't come with you, you could arrange for him to come on a tourist visa for his annual holidays for some part of the year. Or if he has skills that are in demand, he could come on a temporary work visa sponsored by an employer.

If it is the "real thing", it will work out in some way because the "real thing" will survive a separation and will respect your need to "live your dream".

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You've put a lot of work to this travel, and now that you have it, it'd be foolish to drop it for someone you've just met and have no idea whether its going to work or not. I totally understand you're falling for him and all, and know you'd like to have a companion in your life, but it all comes at its own time. You've just accomplished one major goal, now the next step is find someone to share it with. I am sure that wherever you land, you will find someone else whom you can share your life with. Don't be a fool. There's time for everything.

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