In Montreal guys always put their hands on my girlfriend at the bar, is this acceptable?

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asphyxia

never ok in any country i think because it is disrespecting that person if you do that .

lj1

It sounds to me like she is just making an excuse to flirt with other men. And she expects you to be a perfect gentleman? It shows a total lack of respect, and it is unacceptable behavior anywhere you go.

The Great One

There is no way that it is acceptable anywhere. That is just a total luck of respect man.

I feel for you.

S1LK

I'm from Montreal, and I've spent time in England so I have seen both perspectives. In Montreal people are more touchy-feely, but that sounds like they are pushing it. Unless they're friends of your girl in which case that's normal... I must say I have never exprienced that however.

But let me put it this way. If any guy did that to my girl he had better back off VERY quickly once I made my view known. Your girlfriend sounds a bit friendlier than normal, even by montreal standards...

Greeneyed

sorry that is not acceptable
(Canadian)

Do your own thinking!

I've spent enough time in MontrÃ©al without that happening that I have to wonder what she's doing. How does she dress, act, what does she say to them?

Sorry; not good.

CrAzY-B|TcH

Unacceptable

aroundtheom

Knock em out..but you have to take your hockey gloves off and then pull their jersey over there heads and then continue to batter them:) Your girl should say non to them....there are creeps everywhere there...they all think that because they have their silly accent they can get all the girls...eh.

Goddess of Grammar

If she's ok with it, it's just between you and her. I think that generally yes, Montrealers are more likely to touch, and are more likely to notice the encouragement (from her) than the discouragement (from you). Since it really does bother you, and she doesn't seem to care, you may have to dump her. But I think it wouldn't be a bad idea first to try touching other girls and let her know how it feels.

berggarbageman

sounds like ur girl gets around man but yeah they did seem more touchy when i was there also saw the same thing in france so yeah they r touchy and friendly but they are also trying to get in her pants i'm from new jersey and very close to nyc if u do that in this area u may just turn up as a missing person

amanda w

I am from Montreal and trust me I don't let any man put there hands on me (especially because i have a boyfriend) and if they are it's definitely flirting and you are giving the a guy the wrong impression if you don't tell them to stop.This is not a culture thing its flirting and your girlfriend should not be letting them do that when she has a boyfriend to do that.

Dale K

It's acceptable as long as you let it happen. I wouldn't

NO WAY is it acceptable, because they are from Montreal is no different. Anyman who puts his hands on my wife and starts rubbing her is a DEAD man. Especially if he is French!!

Kevin

Montreal is very dirty city, there is no ethics there, what do you expect from Canadian? They left isolated from the World in whole history, they id all kinds of crimes against their own children. I saw a 16 year Boy who was telling me having anal sex with his father for $60 that father giving him, there was a court case that a girl had ten years sex with his father and the court give her only $50,000 award against father.

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