Is it worth going back and forth for a guy in Cuba??

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Lex

The whole thing seems fishy. Did he tell you his father's name and address? I bet not! If I were your parent, I would advise you to not keep in contact. I think you can only get hurt, not to mention find yourself in a financial mess.

There are nice young men in Canada. Look around. Have fun here

"Am I just being stupid? Should i just forget about him and live my life in Canada. " YES.

officer_juice

Whatever you do, do not marry this Cuban. So many of my friends have fallen in love in Cuba and got married. Once the brought him or her back to Canada and they received their papers. They were dumped and divorced. I`m not saying they are all bad like that, but 8 of 9 friends were used.

wellmaintained

how can you really enjoy a relationship with a person in another country. a relationship consists of being together, to talk, to share, to confide in, to laugh with, to be romantic, to enjoy leisure time with, and so on. the more you dont have these things the more you need them, so you really feel lost with out the fantasy of being with that person. try to go out and do other things and meet other people, his memory will soon fade

tgrt_home

I've never heard of a long distance relationship working -- except in the movies. Never.

Terra Nostra

If you are asking the question, you probably know the answer already. Why don't you just stay away from Cuba for a while and perhaps go somewhere else? Let him come to Canada and then see what happens next. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Buena suerte!

Peace on earth

How sure are you that his father is Canadian and that he will be coming to Quebec to study in a year or two? This seems like a far-fetched story. I know Cubans (my Spanish is fluent and I have been there more than 10 times) and I know they make up stories to make themselves interesting or to get a foreigner to help them enter another country. He might even be spinning this tale to another girl. Just be careful.

sweetnesstosome

I had the same exact thing happen to me with my ex boyfriend of 6 months who was in another continent and actually from a different country that I met him from. The best conversations (more like primate sign language and understanding) but it was not going to work because he wasn't trying to learn English... I think personally, guys should try their all to be with us after your many attempts on being together. No matter what....

Aziza70

You should keep in touch with him and see what happens when he goes to university. Until he does go, maybe you can rotate your visits. He can visit you, then you can visit him. Also, phone calls and definitely letters are cheaper. They also give you a chance to get to know him without the intrusion of intimacy.

Jordaine B

o cool i have Afro in my family. but yea u should definitely keep in touch. after all, he's coming to canada. so hopefully it could turn into something serious..

Tennis_Chick

Well, i think you should keep your friendship with this guy.. Maybe you should communicate through mail and not spend so much money going to Cuba, i mean you can travel to Cuba, but very often will cost you a fortune; as you said flights to Cuba are really expensive. Letters can keep you two in touch and give you the opportunity to know each other better. Let time decide what will happen next :)

Princess

Well, since he is going to move to Canada to attend college, I think you should keep in contact with him, why not? He will learn English and u guys can date, every thing will be just fine. **** luck!

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