Stubborn Jamaican Men!?

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Tanya

You would probably love for me to tell you that you are being too hard on yourself but no such luck, you were wrong for being disrespectful and these are the consequences. However with that being said we all step a little out of line when we get upset at times. I feel he is just angry right now and anyone who cares about someone would be angry after being dissed by that individual. He will come around. $30 bucks is not a lot of money and just because you are not speaking to a friend does it also mean he has to also not speak to that friend? Unless it is not customary for him to call your ex-friend then I see no problem with him calling her.

Don't learn the hard way like most girls do. When you care about a man do not use another man to make him jealous, he will not want you more. He will simply leave you or get even, either way none of his actions will benefit you in the least.

When you are in the wrong, you should humble your self, it is not belittling yourself to apologize. Give him some time and he will call you. But learn from this ordeal.

hitman619

I suspect you have "island fever" mixed with a "low self esteem"
Your friend is trash and so is this dude "i would dump both of them"
i would leave his *** on the island

You live in NYC (I think) there's plenty of of jamaicans running around the Bronx's
I know
I use to be one of them :)

Highly Favoured

You asked the question already. Forget him and get on with your life. Why should you be running down behind him and he has nothing to give you. He begged your friend for money. What kind of man would do this? Do you want someone like that in your life? He is just angry and shame because you found out what he did.

jahmakanhotty

Girl....I know what you are going through. I have a man in J.A. as well, and im always beign told that he's just using me for his papers. I go to visit him all the time and everytime its the best time in my life. In my heart I dont feel like he is using me and thats all that matters.

Sometimes we get into arguments because we are soo far apart, and listen to what other people are telling us. And he sometimes goes a week without responding to my texts, or calls. I get angry and tell myself that I am going to leave him alone. Eventually he calls, and we talk things out.

I'm not saying that its good, but you have to be prepared to deal with the up and downs of a long distance relationship, and understand that some Jamaican men are STUBBORN, because they were raised that way and dont really know another way to deal with the issues that relationships bring.

If you feel that you want to go down there and continue the relationship, that is your choice and only you know what is best for you...so stop listening to your friends, cause sometimes its jealousy also, and why did she have his number anyway????

Excuse me while I light my splif

Jah man u cee we jah reeal jamacian pure ja see, come to jamaica bless up!

Bob D

Dump the guy....most men ( and women ) are out for what they can get & throw ya away afterwards....and they act REALLY good too, so don't get fooled !

a.k.a. ify

I'm not trying to belittle you or Jamaican men but jamaicans have the tendency to take advantage of people who are too nice. I think he's just trying to find someone to bring him to foreign and he see's that you check for him. But if he respected you, he shouldn't have any words for ur friend. There's probably a lot of things that he didn't tell you about the conversation that he and ur ex-friend was having. I wouldn'tt trust it home girl. If u like Jamaican men, there are plenty of them here in America. I'm telling you this from experience because I went thru something very similarr.

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