Why do guys find it humiliating to be a virgin?

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773H

Because It's not a macho thing to be.

dager35

Basically because guys make fun of each other over stuff like that.

White Rose

well...i think that its very attractive for a guy to be a virgin....it shows that you actually care about the girl and not just to "get some." The guys that do find it humiliating to be a virgin should not care what other people say because then you will just drive yourself crazy about what other people think or say...i say ignore everyone else and do what you feel is the right thing to do...i hope this helps...:)

daniel

its the ego thing...often misguided... nothing wrong with being a virgin...i think it only means you put more value to it than most of them...just know yourself...if your secure with who you are i think nobody can humiliate you in any way...

Xenah

Congratulations on making the choice.
As you imply it's not easy to be a male virgin: In a society where aggression and virility are the hallmarks to being male, for the past few centuries at least, showing a more sensitive and conscious side of the male personality can be considered weak. I suppose that's why confident and determined women are called ( rhymes with 'twitches' and means "female of the canine species.")
Sexuality is a very personal and subjective matter and a little forethought a conscious choice can be made: With diseases like HIV/AIDS and syphilis, you would want to make an informed and educated choice. Of course, there's the religious argument for virginity and celibacy also but that's another topic all together.
Fear not, your choice is courageous one. So what's more important to you? Your dignity or their egos? Choice is yours.
You never know..... may be those guys wished they waited.

magdalena_cicena

Society.

gillen s

cuz it means u cnat get no action

Max

they should not.....

pharmacy mama

probably because their homies would think that they just couldn't get anybody to sleep with them

BM0027

When I was, it was like...being inexperienced, ignorant. But now that I'm not, I kind of miss it a little. Kind of weird....

Jerri B

cause they watch too much tv
those stupid idiots

ifeellikeimdrowning

I don't.

But then again I'm not.

sam_shellybenitez

Cause they are always thinking with the wrong head!

Beebz

Haha, virgin!!! But seriously, it's like a quest for manhood... kind of stupid but its pretty natural progression

silly rabbit

it supposedly goes against their "reputation". silliness, i tell ya.

bighelp

some guys feel like less of a man if they havent been with someone. Peer pressure leads them to believe they are the only ones who havent when in fact, they are far from the minority

MoMoney23

Not all guys do. One friend of mine actually prides himself on being one, and he's 22 years old.

don't know...ask Steve Laird

i dont. many dont. depends on the crowd your with

realstylesint'l

because some guys think that women are like trophies.....but it is not a bad thing, unless your are no longer a young man.

so honestly, i hope i lose my virginity before 2012 God's willing, and is a cure for my skin disease is found really soon, so i could have perfect skin.

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