At the age of 21 would you?

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**Diana**

I have just celebrated my 21st Birthday and if I would chose-I would stay in UK...You always can have sunny holidays in Cyprus and visit your parents:-)

I belive it is a quite difficult to decided where to live. But remember- you always can change it and move where you want:-)

Andy T

what a heart rending decision!

your ;love for your family against your love for your country/boy friend

i don't think anyone on here can help you make it, it has to come from you!

- even at 47, i am having trouble making that decision on your behalf

I would be gutted if my mom [dad has passed] decided to emigrate but i have far too many commitments here to go with her [wife 2 kids - 1 of whom re getting married next year]

how many commitments do you as a 21 yr old have in the UK?

job?
kids?
boyfriend?

if its just boyfriend
whats to say its not going to be over in a few months / years?
it's never over with your parent [even when they are gone]

i don't know - these are just my thoughts

only you can decide
good luck my friend - in whatever you decide

babbers47

own place with loved one and then holiday regularly for free at parents place! you got it made!

Babyemz

it depends if you can see a future with your bf and want to be with him then stay, if you think theres more to life then pack your bags! x

*Jasmin*

get your own place - ur a big girl now =)

sailor

It's time to cut those apron strings and start your own life.

*Moscow*

I moved out at 18.

Stay in England and get your own place, be independent.

Jemima

I agree with most people in that you should stay here in England.
I was in a similar situation almost 2 years ago now, my parents and younger sister moved to Dubai - and I had the option to go with them or stay here and finish uni etc.
I decided to stay here even though it was so upsetting, and I got depressed so much.
But then if you do get a chance to visit them, you will get to see Cyprus (as others have said). It's almost like guilt-tripping your parents into giving you a free holiday
(but not as nasty as that sounds :)

Plus, if you go there for a visit at a later stage and decide you like it more than UK, you can always move then.

bing2

i want to be w/ my parents but i also want to be w/ my bf,
idk, hard to decide,
only you can decide, you know the circumstances
goodluck

LIVI

Get your own place. Most people marry around 25-30, so if you love someone, this may be the time to begin your lives together.

Diamond

get your own place -you can always fly out to visit your parents

Orla C

Cyprus, and try to bring your honey and get your own place there!

Dame Fanny Haddock

Woah! I'd move to Cyprus with my parents. A much better quality of life, lower crime rates, the chance of meeting the handsome son of a rich shipping magnate, sun, sea, sand. Are you crazy. Get your bags packed! I would not hesitate. England (the UK in general) is ruined. GO!

GATORADE

Move to Cyprus and experience another culture while you are young. You may never get the chance to do so in the future.

ann w

at the end of the day it is up to you to decide what is the best thing for you to do, at least if you stayed hear you could visit your parent's for holidays

Vidic

Stay in England!

Cyprus may seem great as a holiday destination, but living there would be totally different.

90210 aka Hummer Lover

stay. please don't go, i cant bare to see you leave. promise me you will stay.

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