Do all Turkish men want virgins?

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ev pandasÄ±

Well, there are two sides of this issue.
First there are chauvinist bastards, which I hate for not only their extreme devotion to their own sex, but also the hypocrisy they commit. Most of these guys fool around with other girls and even their fathers encourage it. They brag about it saying "my son is a stud.." or "my little boy has now become a man..." etc..

But when it comes to the daughter, they would never ever let them act the same. Accusing them with being unchaste. The same attitude goes for the bride to be too. They like the bride "untouched".

Than there are those "turkeyismyheart" has described above.

Personally, I have a tendency towards the second group.

And just to be clear, I don't classify women "clean" and "unclean" according to their sexual experience.

Keyser

Arent Christians supposed to be virgins until marriage btw?

Im sure the VAST majority of the western christian population have broken this very important christian rule.

And no i wouldnt turn down a woman just because shes had sex before.

Irmak

Nope, it changes.
Being a virgin is important because they think that those girls are 'pure' or 'clean', I mean for marriage.

turkeyismyheart<3

Well I can tell u, not only men prefer virgins, but turkish women also.

It is because they want to share their honeymoon with someone special, and be their first person. That kind of thing.

It has to do with culture, trust, and that you believe you are special for each other, for both sexes.

That is what I think.

Ã‡etin

Hi,
i think, after President T.Ã–ZAL ,in TÃ¼rkiye , the important of the virginity changed because the new economical life style changed Turkish citizen's life style.
Do you known ,the sensibility of the west world life style about the virginity changed after 1929 economical crises and WWII .Why?

Bix

No.

I know at least one person who really doesn't "want a virgin". That's me.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Au02p8huOuU&feature=related

MegaStar

i bet not...

hanibal

I think , virginity of the brain is more important .

Totally Blunt

There are more than 70 million people living in Turkey, nearly half of them men. Some young men do say they prefer virgins, some don't give a damn. And no, I haven't personally made a poll to find out. I just scan eksisozluk (a popular web site) from time to time.

Isobel Kitty

They want virgin girls for marrying but they wouldn't if you are virgin when you're searching for fun.

Emily S

no not necessarily to be honest, i can see where your coming from but not every turkish man wants a girl that's a virgin....
i guess when they say they want a virgin or prefer a virgin, they mean they want someone who doesn't sleep around...it doesn't necessarily mean they wont marry someone isn't a virgin..though they will prefer.
i know loads of turks who have married girls who were married before and have kids.

Oekaki

Not all, but a lot of them do. That's because they tend to be possessive over their women, and a woman who has slept with another man is considered "damaged/second-hand goods". So there's nothing "cute" about it, really.

The funny thing is, men's obsession with virginity doesn't stop girls from doing whatever they want. (You can do a lot of things without damaging your hymen, and even if it does get damaged, it's easy to get it "fixed" surgically.) It just forces girls into sexual hypocrisy.

Hello!!!!!!!!!

Chauvinistic double-standards are cute? Hmmm...

"Easy is an adjective used to describe a woman who has the sexual morals of a man." ~Nancy Linn-Desmond

Lol sorry I'm not trying to be mean to you by saying that.

But it is quite a double standard that is a slippery slope which leads to forcing women to believe that their self-worth is tied solely to the condition of their hymen and nothing else.

There was actually a court case in France where a man wanted to divorce his new wife on the grounds that she had lied about a "desirable trait." The man found out that his wife had not been a virgin at marriage. This caused an uproar in France, because it violated their secular rules and it would be the beginning of a dangerous path that would compromise France's equality between men and women. France's court struck this down, underlining that a woman's virginity was not to be considered a desirable trait for a basis of divorce.

Trust me. Chauvinism isn't cute, it is dangerous to men and woman's equality.

And I tell you this in the nicest way possible. You're one of my contacts and I mean no disrespect to you.

amphitryon

classic "middle East double standard" - to a degree still ingrained also in Western Society. so don't sneer at the Turks etc.....

roots:
historical
traditional/tribal
religious

many "western" clinics now specialize now in the hymenoplasty procedure: it is basically a reconstruction surgery of the hymen membrane.US doc's, among others, make a fortune doing this.....

so perhaps we should re-state the question: "Why do some people attach such importance to an intact Hymen?"

AtakanK

It depends on the guy I guess, and if a man is truly in love, he would forget about such taboos.

jaypauldini

doesnt everybody want a virgin

Divine Creation

I'm not turkish but i would love to marry a virgin, or my true love is a virgin.

Qu'est ce que tu pense?

It all depends. The majority of the Turkish men could care less. All that matters to them is the GIRL that they're marrying...not how many times they've done it. However, there's a small minority of guys who believe that it's traditional to marry a virgin, because it's considered "clean." As I recall *eh hem* the U.S. is very similar. Just look at Jordin Sparks and the Jonas brothers.

Dr Love

lol you are funny and it's not just turkish men... i am an Albanian man..
and i also do want that.. and of course i always get what i want.. here is my 2cents.. ok first of all if you did not know now you will.. when a woman is a virgin she will 99% of the times fall in love with you.. and want to be with you until you prove to be 1 a moron 2 a user.. and then they just move on.. my gf was a virgin and i loved her before we ever got anywhere near that subject.. i only found out that night.. so my point is most guys think this way.. if she's a virgin i get to pop that you know what.. and she will be mine.. and since i know turkish men.. from Turkey i mean.. that's the mentality over there.. as far as the north americans go well they just want to pop it.. simple (lives in Canada) so yeah i fall in that region.oh and one more thing.. they belive that a virgin is easier.. in which case they are mostly correct.. and i do speak from personal experience.. just dont hate me.. i'm only answering.

arpsy

mmm why do you think just Turkish men thinks like that, did you not read the news where a american girl sold her virginity for 2 or 3 million dollars? and it was not a middle east men who pay that money was a western Australian!!! if western men do not care about that why the girl got alot of proposals and she was able to get alot of money for a alleged virginity that may be she corrected by a simply plastic surgery? and btw why there are a lot of plastic surgeries doing this kind of surgeries in western countries?

dantistryfiliya

f**k u all who say itsnt or dont care every turkish man cares a LOT about that every american man cares all men cares so if u rnt a virgin i wont marry u only to be a girlfreind not a wife

Preet

It is their culture I am pretty sure. Not only Turkey pretty much all Middle east countries and India want virgins. Family respect issues and all. But we don't think like that in America, do we?

assad

No really, having sex is not so easy, I mean independent. It's not a taboo but we are not comfortable as other europeans. But its changing in these days. Turkish people are much and much confortable all about sex.

willing to have a virgin, bahh this is just from old times. Altough some blockhead still want their girlfriends to be a ****, but thier wifes to be saints, much of the youth would not care in nowadays.

We all know that having sex is one of the common things in human instinct and life. So having sex with lots of girls before marriage and then wishing for a pure virgin would be so idiotic.

I'd like my wife to be a virgin of course, but i dont care too much really, because I can't blame her for what she did before me, and there is nothing to blame. Much of the Turkish youth thinks the same. We are modern dont confuse us wth other undeveloped muslim nations.

Meanwhile, moonlight, what are you a terrorist lover puritan. it seems so.

Hey pops, unfortunately we have some blockheads like this in our country, who call themselves muslim but just puritans, and because of this much of you know us turkish people very differently as we are, I hate this.

We have nothing to do with terrorist order who kill people in the name of religion. Just go to hell.

Lady S

Elena, I want s3x with you

grrrrr

mysterygirl27

not all my b/f is turkish and loves my goods.
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=84866674

Aygen I

Typically yes because of Islam and their culture in which women must remain virgins till married. The whole thing is stupid to me that a man won't marry a non-virgin besides so many girls in the Middle East now a days do the same stuff as men but get their hymens repaired or fake their virginity using sheeps liver. The whole thing is really sad.

Jen

i think its the parents that prefer virgin for their son

1st Lady09

They don't want virgins they want girls that like to do porno movies those are the girls they want

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