Do you speak kindly to people even if they are rude to you?

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Hurricane

You will be shocked but,i bet you,i speak kindly as a boy.
i'm never a quick-tempered person so i hardly ever get angry.Even i can laugh to the person who is rude to me :-) and this situation makes them crazy.

kulla

No,it isnt Im.

Slick Rick

To a point, but it takes a lot more for me to get angry than most.
I like to keep my cool, you will always have the advantage with a clear head when the other person starts to loose it.

gypsy

no point in being rude back, the person that was rude to you couldnt care less, so you would only be bringing yourself down to his/her level. Not worth bothering with doing that.

haswena

Gypsy is right, they only try to provoke you. If you react on that by being rude back, you give them exactly what they want.

However, I won't speak kindly back either. It's best to ignore rude comments. It's hard to let that kind of comment go by, but only by ignoring them they'll see that this way of addressing people won't get them what they want.

DejaVu

no I dont I become ruder then the rudest, worse then the worst, (better then the best sometimes) all depending on who I deal with...

The Babe is Armed!

I don't take people seriously when they're rude, so I don't have the reaction of being rude to them. It is very rare that I am truly rude, and I usually apologize afterward, even if it is a stranger.

The one exception was recently when I kicked a guy out of my office after he argued, for over an hour, about how he didn't have time to do a five-minute task. He thought it should have been my job to do it. Then he came back the next day with paperwork that he thought PROVED it was my job, and still kept saying he didn't have time for this. Oh I'm getting mad again just typing it!

Ipek K

I bet you, I do..

Just check my answers...

Believe me, it is sometimes very though to do so... If I speak my mind, I would be reported ten times a day :D

Irmak

Hmm, first I try to speak polite but then if they continue to be rude, I become a rude person too! =)

Tanju

Hi Pinky,

I am trying, but never insulted

Cheers

manchester fan

i speak kindly to people at first but if they are mean to me i answer them the same way they spoke to me :D

Eman G

not in all sietuations Pinky
in some my eyes turn red :p

unknown_soul1

to a point
a man can take only tat much
after wich the gloves r off u better watch out

Eddy2007

Hi;
At the begining of the discussion I use to be very gentle -just to give him a chance- later i'm taking a position a bit higher than his one.
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Stefy!

At times, but with sarcasm like I'll say aren't you a doll and stuff like that. But if they catch me on a bad move I'll just tell them to get away from me or leave.

Trotsky vs Kerensky- ÐÐµÐºIÐ¾!

No I don't. In fact I get ruder than they are. One thing I don't tolerate is rudeness. (haha no wait I only tolerate rudeness which is reactionary like mine. So that doesn't count)

carmelo_sabato

what happen if one rude finds another rude !!! and discussing things in a rude way!! it becomes rudomania!!

istanbul bogazi

Pinky,
Not before but now the ruder they get the kinder i become making statements right to the point. I learnt that rude people get happier when they quarrel or dispute with people so i don't give them that chance. Then i just ignore them.

crazyyoung

Thats my property to speak kindly

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Well, I try.