How can you tell if a Turkish guy is for real?

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genç türk

He is OK.

Sinan

Not all Turkish guys are like that.
I am a male, I don´t like this kind of behavior.

If I were a girl, I would say good byyyyyy.

? ? ? I. A. ? ? ?

There are good guys and bad guys in every nation.

Don't be disappointed by the first Turkish guy you meet...

Generalizing about the attitude of just one Turkish guy, it's just like generalizing about Brazilian "easy-going" women, Italian " macho" men or " African " cheater" men,etc...
That's prejudice...

Totally Blunt

Sorry, you lost me at the first item, i.e. lying.

No, not all Turkish guys are like that and we dislike lies, bad-temper, extreme jealousy and sleeping around.

If you were my sister, I would tell you to forget about him. Short term misery is much preferable than any long term misery.

Well? What are you waiting for? Haven't you dumped him yet? Hmmm?

Hannai

I don't know about Turkish men, but if any man behaves that way its time to say goodbye.

He lies and apparently has relationships on the side? Why are you even considering this bloke when its obvious you can't trust him?

Also his jealousy and getting mad when you go out indicates that he either doesn't trust you or he likes to be in control. Neither is a good sign. The need to control you is actually one of the early warning signs that a relationship is becoming abusive. Remember its your right to go where you want and associate with whomever you want.

Overall Id say you already know he has to go as you said "the bad stuff outweighs the good"
He may be real but it sure isnt a real you would want.

Check out this website
http://www.dvirc.org.au/whenlove/checklisttxt.htm

val f1 nutter

there are a few like this and unfortunately they get the good guys a bad name. the ones like you describe are usually the ones that end up in 'take a break' or other magazines. This tends to give people preconceptions. This guy sounds like a player who wants his cake etc. I would be inclined to say stay clear, regardless of whether he is Turkish, English, Chinese or anything else.

I have been with my Turkish man for nearly 7 years now and he is nothing like you describe. If he was, i would have run a mile

ipek

Run away quickly he is a control frig. Turkish men are sweet and jealous but not a liar.

Qu'est ce que tu pense?

Are all the books the same? No. If a book is putting you through misery, would you still read it? No.
Forget about him and move on

Basia

:-) You both deserve each other.

There's no love here. He's craving for some romance while you're just enjoying the high you get from his attention. When you miss him, it's actually your ego that misses him.

NoxecA

you can never tell...that is what LOVE is all about....

.:::Niko:::.

I don't know what your nationality is but as you may appreciate that there are always good,decent,honest people as well as liars 'n jerks in any part of the world.So I'm afraid that your question doesn't make sense. You can't judge a whole nation by lookin at him. You can't judge a book by lookin at the cover....can you?

NAMIK KEMAL

I think you need professional help

You confuse a virtual friendship with a real romance...
.. you attribute somebody's characteristics to his nationality
........ thus you think you can characterize all the Turkish alike

AS IF all those above are not enough, you get to justify your groundless and false assumptions through judgements of people you don't even know. Please give us a break!

Hmm,

I have to admit, everyone who says you ought to keep it moving is right.

No matter what cultural background you come from (I am turkish and male) I don't think that it can be a mark of your maturity.

Behavior such as lying is unacceptable from any man OR woman. But I must admit that sometimes as human beings we like it when our admirers get jealous, for some insane reason we feel more wanted.

Let him go do his military service. It might change his attitude. And my last thing to say is this:

It is not the pace at which we grow... It's that we grow...

ithinkiatetoomuch

Turkish or not Turkish, he sounds jealous and there is no cure for jealousy,

why settle for someone who is already giving you a hard time before you have even met?

hanibal

What's wrong with him ?
Aren't we , telling lies , jealous est...

Just listen to your heart.

DejaVu- RETURNS

I think that 'most likely' thing here is yes he is real but he is not normal...

No Turkish men are not like that at all.

Ipek K

Are about 40 million Turkish men who are living in Turkey like this?- Not counting at least another 20 million living other countries.. Hmm..

I am afraid you think that we are factory made, do you?

Rain

You never can tell if a guy is for real, equal from where he comes.

istanbul bogazi in the Queendom

How can you generalize the men in a country with the only person you know? Are all the men in your country the same?
Of course they are not all like this.

I could never be with a man like you described sorry.

Tanju

Hi,

Himm, This is important subject ...

You are saying 'he tells a few fibs' ...
Well I guess this kind of lies white lies and not important so much ... Am I right ?

But if you say he's bad-tempered, I must say this is very important .. Be Carefull, During the Relationship No one can be want it ... Think ...

About Jealous : Stage is important ... If you are disturb, you must talk him very seriously ... Think Again ...

You are saying 'he has a few girlfriends (or sleeping with them 'he says')' : I do not believe him, noone say something about this kind talk with girl-friend . He wants to get angry to you ...

Anyway, My advice , speak with him very cleary and you must say, what you want ...

Otherwise up to you ...

Take Care

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