How to stop my husband from stealing my money?

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alice c

ANNE.. I think that's very scary that you have a husband for nine years, two kids and are bairly able to comunicate with him. A man whom STEELS a womens money is not being a very good Husband. Especially when you are the Mother of his children. I don't know his finacial situation or what he needs your money for but all and all you are a Lady and a Mother and you need to be taken care of just like you children do don't get me wrong as sexist as I am I'm not saying a Women needs to be cared for in the sence that we're a weaker sex because as long as you care for respect honor and sexually satisfy your Husband which we all know you have if you'all have two kids then your putting in the relationship and if your not steeling from him He has NO right to do it to you. Now this is where it gets hard you need to figure out why and what he does with that money and if it's a worthy cause for your relationship then hey thrive to stand by him but if it's not then the discion in finding a new path for a better relationship of a worthy man is up to you hope i helped gl.

â™¥BarÄ±ÅŸ Awarenessâ™¥

You have to remove him from the
equation. I have to agree though
his nationality is not important enough
to have pointed out, because this
issue is not exclusive to this one
particular race. Stealing means
secrecy, meaning very big problems,
addiction to something most likely,
and only fixable with the help of a professional.
Letting him go because you love him
and encouraging him to seek help,
is about all you can do, right?

Rengim- You don't allow email
and that question was deleted,
hmm, shocker huh? To answer
your question though, Alana means
"awareness" or "awakening".

hanibal

If he is your husband how can you call , he is stealing my money. Family means our money not my money or life. And you still thinking this is a problem for you , don't write your family problems here.

First you must learn what family is.

Keyser

Is this what marriage has come to these days?

You get married for 9 years,have children,and you still call money you earn solely yours,and that your husband is a thief?

If your married with kids,your a family,there is no theft,your in things together,if you dont understand that you dont know what marriage is.

Justice

Get a separate account...or a new husband.

raskill_99

you could hide it? or get another bank account, and when you get paid, have an automatic payment coming out of your account in to your new account, so you can save some

veritas

He sounds like a kleptomaniac.

Why don't you just share your wealth with him and keep what you can't lose in a fixed deposit account? That way he can no longer steal from you ... Get a psychologist to help him out so that he doesn't steal from others too.

Billie.â™¥

if it is serious then take your kids and leave.
i HATE people who steal

Totally Blunt

Erm... you call his family to complain about his stealing... You have money and he doesn't... He steals and you still make two kids...

Seems like a bad decision in the match-making department. We don't like stealers, but we don't like snitches, either.

It is time to solve an optimization problem. Add up the boons against disadvantages to having such a husband and according to the result, just get over it or dump him.

And... what has anything got to do with his nationality?

Rengim

I feel sorry for you. Not in a condescending way though, I really do feel sorry for you.

What do you think marriage is? Just commitment? Well you didn't have to get married you know to be committed to each other. Marriage legally binds you guys together and enables you to share what you have. In a marriage unless there was an agreement first-hand everything is common to the couple. This is probably what he thinks, this is why he doesn't ask you for money and this is why his family doesn't really care. Thrust me when you hear the dial after the phone call they're probably mumbling about the crazy bride of theirs and her crazy ways. If you don't want him to take your money just tell him directly. He's not a gold-digger since he's been with you for 9 years, if he had other motives he would have left you years ago so I don't see what's your real problem. If you're not happy leave him. If you love him then why do you care if he takes your money which unless he's spending on drugs, alcohol or gambling might just be useful for the family.

Thank you Alana! It's still a lovely name and goes into my name-I-would-give-a-child pile :)

Allan D is GAME OVER

Keyser gave you an excellent answer.

vatanshoev a

I don't know , just let him know

adventurous

either you are really stupid or your question is so fake!

C-LO

The best thing to do is to simply keep your money elsewhere. If you have a hard time communicating with him then that is your best solution until you can find out what he's taking the money for.

Goldi Lox

If he's your husband than the money is not yours alone, it's both of yours. As long as he's not spending it on drugs or something bad, then the money belongs to both of you and it's not stealing.

Raven

wow thats the first time I hear something like that

maybe he just cant stop stealing peoples money (kleptomatic)

1-& before you jump into any conclusions how do you know that it is him

2-maybe he s in trouble (gambling issues, mafia debt,...)

I think its very serious that something like this is getting between your relationship but even if he is a prick if his family says hes gonna return it , it must be serious

start taking it seriously & if you cant resolve it think 2wice before a divorce

seriously if he was a thief why the hell would he wait for 9 years +2 kids

have a great family & start robbing them thats not really rational
:)

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