I am going to marry with a Greek Man !!!?

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felicity_xxx

LISTEN TO YOUR HEART SWEETY!!!
JUST THAT!
COME HERE, IN GREECE!
YOU GONA LOVE THIS PLACE!

hanibal

If you love him and if he loves you I cant see any problem .
Ohh families ?
9 muonts + 10 days later they forget everything. I mean a baby can solve that problem very easly.
But baby's name is very important. If girl Melisa ... if boy Ege or someting like that.
1 year later both families begin to understand that , they were wrong.
Good luck to you

Quizzer

leave your house and run away

Serendipity

that is SO romantic! good for you!

cpinatsi

Don't rush. Take your time to make sure you really love each other and can surpass all obstacles. I don't mean the obstacles of being Turkish+greek, I mean the obstacles any couple may face, which is the reason many people brak up even if they are the sam nationality, religion, etc. Instead of getting married, get engaged for some time, the families will have time to get used to the idea too. If after a year things are still great between you two, if your love is strong, it will last and then your families will also see it nd you'll get married.
One last thing: discuss with the guy now what will happen with children, about names and religions. It's better to solve any disagreements now, than to face the problem once the child has come. Religion and history is important for Greeks and Turks, so make sure you have agreed with your husband in advance.

HaveUmetTed

elope cause it's your life,your happiness comes first. Leave both families that'll give them time to think, come back in a few years they'll be happy to have you back

Jonathan M

just follow you heart and forget about your families.I know from experience. I left my country and married a greek moved to greece 17years ago of course my family were outraged and his family were appauled that a greek had brought home a foreignor. but we survived and are happy. I dont know if the 2 families will ever accept our decision but we dont care we are as happy as the day we met and keep both families at a distance.

Tet

Elope? Like in Shakespeare's Midsummer Night's Dreams.

grrrrrrrrrrrrrh

Make them watch that TV show that you call the Foreign Groom and we call the Borders of Love.

It's not an easy thing to do but I'm sure you 'll make it!

Graycode

i'm sure you wanna live your life for you so continue to do so. families involve themselves thinking its good 4 you but it isn't! make the decision whether you want to live happy or by your parents word...

Leonarda

If you were a swedish, or a german I would say be careful becuase we are talking about a different mentality, and different way of life. The greek man, is the man macho dont forget.
But since you come form a country which ahs the same mentality(and greeks dont refuse it, I am greek too, but the orienytal mentality is everywhere the same)I dont know where the problem is.Maybe they dont want you to go away...my parents would do the same.But not because of religion or anything else..
Maybe the problem is the religion, something that it is not important for me..
But...before you do any step...think of it better. In the beginning it may seem fantastic, but in reality there are problems..I know what I am saying, because I had a friend who did ths same.
Problems for children, problems of families, that even if we wnat to eliminate them...they exist..so, both people have tio be so opened minded and ready to eliminate everything and to continue their way leaving back behind...Are you ready?

agent99

elope and have a happy life away from them... if your both happy then thats all that matters. if he loves you and vice versa, they should support your decition.

..Tolia..

listen to your hearts..

it is time people to break prejudices and become free

I know it is difficult but nothing is impossible where is love and goodwill!

remember

it is YOUR life and you must decide for it
not your parents or anyone

if you love him
and if he loves you,
then everything will be ok and nothing can stand between you two!

I truly wish you the best!

ranger_girl

They have no right to dictate who you will marry and with whom you will spend the rest of your life with.
Families love unconditionally and should be "there" for all the important decision you make in your life. Instead of criticizing and being negative the only thing they accomplish is putting you further and further away from them.
This is your life and your decision. You should do what your heart and mind tells you is right and marry this man.

ngiapapa

Just follow your heart!

If there's anything else you can do, then... elope!

Good luck!

amaannnnn

i understand u very well but i cant say anything

valla çok iyi anladım zor şeylerinde çekiciliği insanı çok cezbediyo ama en azından sen bayansın bunu kullan derim. çıksın gelsin yanına ben gidemedim :(

Roubini

Follow your heart! After all, it's your life we are talking about!

Earthling

A Nazlı-Niko case :))
Good luck to you.

ErAs

old generations are not so open-mindedly i think. as im among the new generation and among the fighters of peace, i suggest if u really love someone and if he really loves you, u cannot and shouldnt be stopped by them!

HOTTürk

It will be easier to get the families approval after the marriage :)))

Good luck...

Rillifane

The alternatives are the same now as they where when Shakespere had Juliet exclaim:

O Romeo, Romeo! wherefore art thou Romeo?
Deny thy father and refuse thy name;
Or, if thou wilt not, be but sworn my love,
And I'll no longer be a Capulet.

One or both of you must be ready to surrender that part of your identity or background which makes you the enemy of the other's kinfolk. A difficult task in any age or at any place.

But as Juliet said:

"So dear I love him that with him,
All deaths I could endure.
Without him, live no life."

And remenber, nations, borders, and even religions may pass away but love endures forever.

Iyi şanslar!

Takis

i think this is a yalandzi (fake-γιαλαντζι) post but the best to you anyway.

PS Get married today a Muslim marrying an Orthodox on a Catholic celebration!!!!!

fisikaellinida

Nazli-Nikos."Yabanci Damat"-'The foreign groom "for you."Τα σύνορα της αγάπης"-"Love's borders" for us.I liked the comments about Romeo.
Ρωμαίο,Ρωμαίο!Γιατί να'σαι ο Ρωμαίος;(well this moto was truely catchy in my school years.It seemed so funny to me)
Αρνήσου τον πατέρα σου και άσε τ'όνομά σου.
Ή αν δε θέλεις μόνο αγάπη ορκίσου μου
κι εγώ θα πάψω πλέον να'μαι Καπουλέτου!

well,let's become more serious.the decision is up to you.The acceptance is not the easiest part for both families and society.You've seen the reaction of Spartan.(I love him of course and I'm teasing him.Spartan why have you changed your avatar and what does it represent this time?)There are many other Spartans in here and much more in Turkey.You don't allways have to give a detailed account of every event!It's your life at the end!Good Luck!!
A greek wish for people who are to get married."Καλά στέφανα".-"Kala stefana".A very common greek saying goes this way:Σαν θέλει η νύφη κι ο γαμπρός τύφλα να'χει ο πεθερός"-"Once the bride and the groom wants blinded the father-in-law to be!"We probably faced many wedding-disapprovals!Lol...
P.S.Τάκη εννοείς ότι η γκομενίτσα από πάνω μάς δουλεύει ψιλό γαζί για να κάνει την στατιστική της έρευνα;Θέλω φωτογραφίες απ'το γάμο ρε!!!Άντε που κάθομαι και πληκτρολογώ για να περάσει η άλλη την ώρα της.Ξεκινήσαμε με "Μισείτε τους Τούρκους;" και αφού το εξαντλήσαμε το ρίξαμε στην παντρειά!

Alegra B

They can not reject you..sooner or later,they will say okey and love will win..do not worry..all you need is time and patience!!!

johnny cee

This will take a lot of courage on both your parts. Be prepared for rough sailing ahead. God bless you and keep you.
I Cr 13;8a

goncae

bundan 4 sene önce japonya da bir kübalıya aşık olmuştum ve evlenmeye karar vermiştik. ailelerimize bu durumu açtığımızda kıyametler koptu. O özellikle katolik olduğu için benim dinimi değiştirmem gerektiği konusunda ısrar ettiler. benim ailem de onun zenci ve hıristiyan olmasını pek hazmedemedi.
aşık olduğum kişi de bir diplomat olduğu için işini ve oradaki hayatını bırakması mümkün değildi. benim de okulum daha bitmemişti.
resmen salya sümük ağlayarak ayrılmak zorunda kaldık. sonra onu apar topar evlendirdiler. o, evlendikten sonra bir kez daha beni Türkiye'ye görmeye geldi ama artık olan olmuştu.
sadece şundan emin olmuştuk, biz birbirimizin ruh eşiydik.
umarım siz, benzer şeyler yaşamazsınız... benim kendimi toparlamam çok zor oldu çünkü.

Irmak

I'm Turkish too..

Çok üzüldüm ya :'( Hala dinin veya milletin problem yapıldığı bir çağda yaşıyoruz.

Valla ya onları ikna edicceksiniz ya da onların rızası olmadan evleniceksiniz. Ya da aşkınızı kalbinize gömüceksiniz..

Bol şans..

Nefeli P

Follow your heart girl!!But first of all YOU (and nobody else) should be confident and sure about your feelings and thoughts!And the decision is yours!!If it's gonna make you happy go for it!Take the chance!!
Good Luck!!

emiliosailez

ELOPE

Charles_N

a greek?I feel sorry for you..getting married with a Greek person is like getting married with his whole family...Don't do this mistake pls...But I don't see any reason of asking your family if they re against that..aren't u a free person or what? ts ts ts aaaaaaah i didn't notice u're turkish...greeks n turks?same conservative stuff then...i would suffer if i was ur kid lol ...come on do whatever u want go away from those countries and get a life

kittana!

**** off! YOU JUST SEE TOO MUCH TELEVISION!!!

GET A LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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