
ikkus
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Very serious, it's a fairly common custom. Turkish men aren't all players, just the same as any other ethnicity... Don't know why people keep perpetuating this stereotype. Some of the most faithful and monogamous men I know are Turks.
No Turkish man, or any other for that matter, would ask a girl's father for her hand in marriage if he wasn't serious. He would be expecting a serious *** kicking if he wasn't. |
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wind beneath my wings
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If any man asks a girl's father for her hand, he's serious. |
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Shafayat
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He's DAMN serious. |
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♥ ☼ ♫ Ibrahim ♫ ☼ ♥
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If a man excepts not only mutual love from his woman, but also official approval and "blessing" from the woman's parents, then that means he's a man with moral principles, a man who feels the needs to be "symbolically"accepted as the protector of their daughter...
That's an admirable attitude ( unless he's actually a fundamentalist, which I doubt...)
When the parents agree, that's wonderful...But the problem is when they don't...What a drama...
The girl is then in a terrible dilemma, even if she is free to marry whom she wants... |
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atrak
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If a Turkish man asks a girls father for permission to married he's damn serious |
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istanbul bogazinda yandi gonlum
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come on that's so dumb they dont use english girls; it is very polite to ask the girls father first before getting marride by the way my name is yasemin too!!!!!! |
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Totally Blunt
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Honey, we have tens of thousands of foreign brides living in Turkey. I can't guess the number abroad.
The people who tell you things just hear the complaints of the frustrated girls. Married and settled women don't go around telling how serious their husbands are. |
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deborahvaral
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This tradition is all over the world however alot of countries are leaving this tradition out. In Turkey it is very serious if a Turkish man asks a girls father for her hand in marriage.
Good luck - I married a turk and I have never looked back. |
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MaCeDonIan PhaLanX
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I can only say one thing: Congratulations! |
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Gul V
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Yes he is being serious. It is very traditional for a turkish man to ask the girls parents, if they wish to marry. |
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ev pandası
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If a Papue New Guinean asks a girl's father's permission for marriage, then he is serious. And are there any Papua New Guinean guys who use girls and be players? I bet there are. Yet, this would never drive me to ask questions in Papua New Guinean section of Yahoo!Answers concerning Guinean men's loyalty in relationships. Because that would be totally foolish of me. |
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Ekrem K
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Turkish mens don't use people and when they are serious, They are, if asks your dad, that means he is, I am pretty sure his not using you. I see many Turkish mens marry English women's, it's very common in Australia. |
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dingdong
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oh yeah very but ... are you sure you are ready for marriage , if you were you wouldn't ask here to complete strangers about your own boyfriend. we can not really know if he is serious as we don't know him personally. you only can tell if he is a player or really genuine |
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