Red light district!!!?

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slackercanada77

This is simple.
Cheating is cheating. If your going to cheat, your going to cheat everywhere/anywhere the opportunity presents it's self. It isn't going to matter the situation. You are not a loving faith full person who suddenly get affected with the cheating disease. This is at the essence of someones nature/character. If he goes to Amsterdam and indulges then he will have already done it before. Maybe not cheating on you but he will have cheated before.

Worrying about won't make it any less a possibility. Worry about what you can control and not what you can't.

Oh by the way. He's already decided whether he is going to partake or not.

grapelady911

If your BF is tempted by the RL District over there..whats to say he isn't interested in the girls on this side of the pond?
sounds like there are trust issues between you 2.

my best friend is from Amsterdam, she said that alot of tourist do go, but just to look and see, shop at the adult stores etc. Basically the women stand in windows and woo in customers. Once inside they are given a menu/price sheet. They agree on an act and go about their business

hari j

The red light district is soooo overly touristy. There are probably more "normal" people going to have a gawp than blokes looking for sex.

Why be worried? Is he in the habit of paying for sex over here? If not then why should it be any different over there? If you usually trust him then there is no difference.

Rev Run

There's legal prostitution and legal marijuana...nothing to worry about

pbigfella

Hi, everyone that goes to Amsterdam, visits the Red Light District. Its a big tourist attraction. I have visited with my wife lots of times. Have enjoyed,but honestly not interested in using any.
Dont worry, most visit, and have a laugh. Just because, you visit, doesnt mean you will use the facilities.
The other thing to note that alot of the ladies available are men.
If you boyfriend love is solid, and he doesnt do anything at home, doubt whether he weill do anything in Amsterdam.
You need to trust one another, to develop the relationship.
Afterall, is he worried what you will be up to when he is away ?
Regards
x
Paul

Orla C

Most people go and have a look, that's kind of a given. But whether or not he will actually avail of their services is another thing altogether ... if you don't trust him now, maybe you should reconsider the relationship.

kevin friend

he will probably be to stoned to know what hes doing, he may even come home with a sore bum, send him to the clap clinic when he comes home or you may get an unwanted present from him.

remember Amsterdam is full of cafe's that sell mother natures tobbacco, it wont be hard to talk him into doing something he had no intention of doing whilst he was sober, why dont you go with him, two can have the same fun, theres no harm in looking

confucious says

What else do young men go to Amsterdam for take away the pot and the east european ladies of the night and you are left with a city with a few canals not exactly appealing to a young male. I have been a few times its great but I am a man I would say thet would I not

Quanday G

keep contact with him!

confused

er.. depends what type of a person he is.. do you trust him? does he normally sleep around?
depends how long he is going for and what part of amsterdamn he is going to....

why dont you just ask him and see what he says

sunie

everyone visits the red light district its more like a tourist spot than anything else ...if you and your boyfriend have a good solid relationship then you got nothing to worry about if you d'ont trust him then why are you still with him

El Cid

One would hope that he will be interested in his surroundings as any normal person would be. But is he likely to stray? That's a question we can't answer because we don't know him as well as you do. If your relationship is strong and he is happy with you, he will not want to jeopardise it by having it out with a prostitute. Some men may go out of curiosity, or for a dare because they do not like their partners to do the things to them that some women might do when paid for it. Others like their partners to be 'sluts' in the bedroom as well. We don't know him that well.

You'll have to trust him on this one. It's not jest Amsterdam where he can get things like that.

royphil345

I doubt it... It wouldn't catch my interest.

If it does... I doubt the relationship will be very serious.

You know he'll be gettin' stoned though!!!... LOL

spook542

it's great. he'll get shagged silly

dels replies

Well you know your boyfriend better than us so do you think you an trust him? The red light areas are much more explicit than even Soho used to be ... Near nude ladies in windows trying to entice men in and so on.. Will he be able to resist... do you think... Would be a strange man not to be interested.. but depends if he does anything about it....

He'll catch something if hes not careful lol.

In all seriousness most men would be slighty interested half naked women etc but if you have a loving trusting relationship dont panic.

I am sure he wouldnt risk being robbed of his passport and getting some nasty disease for one night with as hooker. But I am sure he will see a stip show etc if hes going with the lads.

ExHater

It will catch his attention if he has a penis and is not chaparoned. Trust me. You poor girl!

bottle babe

There is only one reason why anyone travels abroad these days. The night life at Am is decidedly vibrant to say the least. Nothing else to spy cept tulips, so i think his interest will be whetted. He may only angle a peek, no harm in just viewing!!

Beckham

your bf won't be interested. Every part of these ladies are not genuine, breast, eye, ..........

Neo

I know a solution to your problem.
Dump him just now before he goes over there, so when he does inevetivly get stoned and shag loads of women, then at least he wont be doing it behind your back and messing you around, and when he comes back get back together.

The unborn

it is where you find ladies of the night. You know prostitutes

steve j

A red-light district is a neighborhood where prostitution and other businesses in the sex industry flourish. The term "red-light district" was first recorded in the United States in 1894, in an article in The Sentinel, a newspaper in Milwaukee. Other mentions from the 1890s are numerous, and located all over the United States.

Some say the origin of the red light comes from the red lanterns carried by railway workers, which were left outside brothels when the workers entered, so that they could be quickly located for any needed train movement. Others speculate that the origin comes from the red paper lanterns that were hung outside brothels in ancient China to identify them as such. It was said that the lights were thought to be sensual. The color red has been associated with prostitution for millennia: in the Biblical story of Rahab, a prostitute in Jericho aided the spies of Joshua and identified her house with a scarlet rope.

During the Great War there were many brothels in Belgium and France. Red lights were used to indicate brothels for other ranks, blue lights for officers.

In more recent years the red-light district term has its name from the red lights that hang from the district's brothels.

One of the many terms used for a red-light district in Japanese is akasen, literally meaning "red-line", apparently of independent origins from the English term. Japanese police drew a red line on maps to indicate the boundaries of legal red-light districts. They also have a term aosen, meaning "blue-line", for a non-legal district. In different cultures red-light districts are identified differently, the most common being "district of prostitutes" (e.g., in Bengali - Khanki Para or Neighbourhood of Prostitutes.)

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