What is the hardest part of meeting someone for the first time?

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Totally Blunt

Fear the he/she willnot be as you imagined him/her.

Fear that he/she willnot find you as he/she imagined you.

After the first awkward 5-10 minutes, I daresay everything will be just fine.

Spartacus!

That depends on your age. When you get older, IMHO, it's remembering their name.

Ipek K

Trying not to forget his/her name, which I always fail to :))

NoxecA

showing them who you really are...opening your heart....

Selena

I never have problems with this either! But I do have problems getting rid of them afterwards!

Leonarda

start a conversation, and realizing that he doesnt have the same interests as you

anlarm

1- Remembering the name ( sometimes I ask it 2-3 times)
2- making a good first impression
3- realizing they have quite the opposite of some of your views

musicman47

For me it is know whether that person is an out going talkative person, or a quiet, someowhat reserved individual? But I think its not hard if your outgoing like I am :)

fear of the unknown

ottoman

For me there is none, I quit like meeting people for the first time, for me it's like opening a present not knowing what to expect , rather exciting,

ipek

I never see any hard part to meet the people. I dont know maybe my personality or I dont care what they think ,I talk to them very comfortably.

Alice in Wonderbra

Sit on the side from which my best profile shows.

.:::Niko:::.

When you meet someone for the first time, what goes through your head? are they kool? are they going to annoy you? do you fall head over heels for the person? What do you feel? These are the emotions that make first impressions so vital in being accepted by a new friend :p

donnabellekim

The hardest thing in meeting someone for the first time is how to adjust to that person in various aspect.First; if you are going to meet for a first time a person who can't understand/speak english and you dont know either how to speak his/her language.The best thing for you to do is to have a bit information about that person's country as well as their culture for you to interact during your conversation or you may become speechless ;be a good listener. Secondly; is when you;re about to meet your boyfriend's mother/relatives.You have to be always polite and watch your actions carefully.Ther's a saying that goes;" First impression lasts" so it;s up to you to make your first meeting of that person worthy.

jesse

I would say breaking the ice unless the person is more outgoing and talkative than you are. Best thing to do is be interested in what the person has to say. You can learn a lot about a person from what they say

genç türk

Not knowing which topics to avoid while talking to them, basically.

Trotsky vs Kerensky- НекIо!

Finding something to speak about. The weather or asking how fine they are is not particularly interesting.

"Erm ah yes indeed it is very nice today"

"Yes it was horrible a couple of days ago."

"Oh yes yes"

"...."

"..." *clears her throat*

It is worse if you are in a room or something, at least if you're outside you will have the opportunity to comment on something.

Paco

yes yes, and why every time when i meet someone she doesnt want me?

Qu'est ce que tu pense?

Making a good first impression

hip lady wants YA fixed

i really don't have it hard because i always tell them my name the way it is supposed to be pronounced. here in the south of the U.S.A. they think it is amazing on how my name sounds. I'm not from the south so the name is a good conversation starter. plus the people here are very friendly

Brooklynn

im nervous for the way i look - idk the more successful or extremely cute he is - the more inadequate i feel -

knowing whether to shake hands, kiss or hug or just say hi.

emiliosailez

Depends on the particular dynamics of the occasion. Is it business? Social? Romantic?

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talking to them