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hi i am turkish. your boyfriend has issues.its nothing to do with him being turkish. he is just a man... men.eh!
i would suggest you to get new boyfriend and forget that guy
skype is best for international calls.pc to pc.i connect with my family in istanbul this way |
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Earthling
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I'm a Turkish woman also, and this is not how Turkish relationships are. I would dump a guy who treated me like this. Tell him you deserve better than that, and dump him. He sounds like a player big time. |
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HomeSweetSiliconValley
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Uh hello - just use Yahoo Messenger or Skype and it doesn't cost you anything to call Turkey. |
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Hurricane
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well,i can understand you,i am turkish.
Some Turkish guy acts like that especially when his girlfriend is abroad and when he is jealous of his gf!
if you think he really loves you;posibbly he acts like that to make you jealous and wants to keep you away from other guys. i know it is a lil strange but that's truth.it must be his planned behaviour.
The cost of callling Turkey from USA is expensive,you are right but try msn messenger,when you and and your bf is online you can call him ant it is free!Also you can try skype,it is an internet phone. |
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nikhil_sharma25
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use www.skype.com.. and download messenger..
and buy international calling cards... they are cheap //
and if not even a hand written letter can help u..
i hope all the best 4 ur life... |
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huckleberry
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I think this relationship is sort of doomed. (Sorry) Lots of things going against you - the distance, the cost of phone calls, the fact that he sometimes does not call for 5 months. Why are you waiting around for this guy? We live on a planet of 6 BILLION people. Surely, there must be at least ONE other man out there who you could admire. Perhaps someone in your geograhical area? Might make it a bit easier to have a real relationship, because right now...you don't have anything.
Move on. This man is NOT for you. |
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♥Minnie Mouse♥
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I am from the USA but I think you are right as this behavior will only get much worse when he thinks "you are HIS"....end it and break any links with him.... |
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AllsTar
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In ghetto; they say: "Turn around ask,yourself sis, Yo man is yo man then do anythin' 2 keep him Yos!" Plus, if u have cricket in your area switch your cell to cricket it has great deals on tariffs. And also try all those IMs, they will work fine... And get rid of those desperate feelings about him... You are betta than that... AND FINALLY, MOVE ON and RUN LIKE HELL, ASAP. Its hi-time u dumped him... |
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fred
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He's just acting like a guy. He sees that you are drawing interest and it makes him jealous. You're in America now, who cares, find someone who will make you happy |
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Atila a
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dear lady,I hope you will find a true man for marriage.No important ethnic origin,cultural situation or other. Only The love. İf there is a real love. and all persons are good educated.One must be human. |
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Pinar
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This has nothing to do with the nationality. MAN EGO. Simple. I would recommend you to just get rid off him and leave him alone with his ego.
BTW Skype is really good on international calls, free of charge. |
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DejaVu
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What I know is Turkish men are the Best, they are loving and most loyal..
But (I am sorry to say that)not your guy he is not good at all please get rid of him cos he is just a player, this is got nothing to do with nationality, its just got to do with him...
You will meet someone who will not give you stress but cherish you, isn't that why people has relationships..
wishing you best of luck from my heart...but please just don't bother with him if you can't do it just like that then try doing it slowly, perhaps by playing his game on him, take care... |
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Irmak
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Lol..My bf is similar to yours..But not for 5 months! Sometimes men behave like women.I think women can behave like this but men shouldn't..
Anyway, dump him..You don't love him (if u did, u wouldn't look for new male friends) and he behaves stupid..It's time to break up friend (I say this because I don't want u to get upset) ;-) |
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THE MAD TURKISH JAZZMAN
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If you want some advice, I just can tell you that this guy may not be the right man for you...
I don't understand why he didn't communicate with you during so long time...
Actually, I think it's not a problem of citizenship, even though culture sometimes has an influence on relationships...)
There are other turkish guys, or american guys or any other nationality, who can be more sensitive and loyal towards you...
Be carefull, try not to waste your time. If he wants you, it's time for you to meet for real, in USA or in Turkey, and then you will be able to take a right decision...
Take care... |
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Qu'est ce que tu pense?
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You could just use msn messenger to keep in touch with him. Also, I think that man is being a jerk, and no not all turkish relationships are like that. Just to clear up some of your questions. |
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MIDNIGHT_EXPRESS_HA_HA_HA
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they are not humans... |
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