Would you change your life style for your boy friend or husband?

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DejaVu

I would compromise, but would not change myself...

perhaps there are certain things say they were upsetting him yes I would try and dont do it, but then I would expect same from him...

Pinar

NO WAY....
If he doesn't like, he can go.

hanibal

Never ( girl friend or wife ).

Leonarda

Hello Selin
In a relation, and as long the relation goes on, people improve and share many things.
Certainly, there are things in our life we can not get rid of, but on the other hand living with another person is not easy.
In a common life, we have to improve, everyone has his faults and weak sides, so, we must be more tolerating, in a logical level, and trying always to give more and to receive.
In this case, if he mentioned something he wouldnt like me to do, yes i would do it by respect to him, but in the same way i would expect also the same correspondence to his wekness, to improve, and to built a healthy relation on fixed base...

Ipek K

If he is my boy friend or husband, he must be in love with me for whatever I am. How can I expect him to continue to love me if I'm not the same women he fell in love with at the first place?

The answer is no but usually loving couples tend to try to fit in and tolerate each others life styles, which is o.k.

Hugo rocks

Nope. He can find someone else then.

upferretmadferret

absolutely not

Leprechaun

I'll answer for my party.

That's almost always the issue when you are in a relationship. Both partners have to change their lifestyle i think.Because when you are in a relationship,you are not only yourself anymore. You live for two not for one. You become like,two in one. So both parties should change and adjust themselves to the other.

It will not work with a partner telling, 'you have to accept me as i am'(for me at least) .It will be the most easy thing to tell. And means not caring about the relationship. I'd accept a friend,a relative,someone on the street as who she is. But i'm in a relationship.So my girlfriend and i have to change me and her into 'us'. If that requires changing the lifestyle so be it.

Irmak

No.

so_twisted

Hell No..=) I don't need someone who can't accept me for who i am.

pb.fan

maybe. if i really love her, i would change.

laura f

if he'd be prepared to do the same for me if i needed him to.

JaNiSSaRY

No! But I may change my life style for my girl friend or wife! :)

Totally Blunt

It depends on his life style. We all go through subtle changes for a relationship, but big ones? I don't think so. Besides, I don't think I would date somebody whose life style is radically different than mine.

fletchfredarnie

No No No No NO!

Qu'est ce que tu pense?

Maybe a little bit. Relationships are all about compromising, and sometimes you need to adjust just a little bit to fit each others needs. I even remember an episode of Sex and the City where Charlotte and her fiance who had just moved in with her. He had this habit where he likes to walk around the house naked, and they both had to compromise by having him put some clothes on.

lynx

We all change a little for a boyfriend or husband just as they do for us It is just how much of a change we do that is the true question If we do change to much we will end up hating our selves for what we have become then when we try to gain some control of what we were then is when the fighting truly begins for then our partner does not like us and we ourselves don't like us What we need to do is quit looking at the outside of the person we are changing for If they are good looking the problem is we find them so attractive we will do what it takes to get their attention but in doing so we have lost ourselves.

kacza

My friends always influence me...even my lifestyle. But...of course, I think I am MYSELF.......I do not mind.......it goes by itself

darwical

If I loved him - sure. Marriage is about compromise, and doing things for the other person. My husband would do the same for me. We've gone through a lot of things together, and our respect for each other and the wish to make each other happy makes everything work out. If he really wants something, It gives me pleasure to see him have it. It has to work both ways though.

kulla

depends what he wants.

Missy

well i have different characters
i can find the correct one for my boyfriend if he is not above normal standarts

junglemonkey

no... but then again without knowing it u end up changing... and then 3 years later u realise that u are completely different, even ur personality has changed, u barely have any friends, u feel and look older and more mature (the not so fun kind) and u wonder why!!

DEEJAY

Maybe?

alice

is this a "travel" question?

Charmed

No, Ä° mean, maybe, it, depends........! ; )

Selena

For the boyfriend, I would never change it. But with the husband, the story is a bit different. If you want to have a good marriage, you must put some compromises in it, that goes for both sides, so in a way you have to change your life style a bit, not on a dramatic scale though!

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