
auntb93again
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Love him too much? You mean, enough to be unhappy with having him for a friend? Oh, my dear, you are going to ruin everything if you're not careful!
Trying to turn a friendship into a love affair has to be done from the back of the head, not the front. Don't try to hurry it. If you go slow, you can have BOTH!!! The best married couples I know are those who knew each other in a comfortable, friend way first. Then love just is something they share, and how it turns into something physically intimate is just . . . circumstances. You are together, you are comfortable with one another, and then some night there is a reason to share sleeping quarters. And there you are. Being friends, you are pleased to be together. And there you are.
Get me? Take your time!!! |
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Richard
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No human can force another to love another.
Either love is felt and enters the consciousness or it does not.
There is nothing you can do except be yourself and express your emotions honestly.
Have you told him that you love him?
That might be a good place to start.
If you cannot come right out and say that, then try:
"Now we are in trouble, I think I am falling in love with you." or words to that effect. |
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large_hearted
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no idea thx for d point |
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jillhourihan
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you can't "make" someone do anything. only time could make him fall in love with you |
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capn_cracker
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Simply ask him if he has ever thought that way about you. If he hasn't don't waste your time. Many people make the mistake of trying to make it work with someone else when in fact it will never work out. If he's not interested keep looking someone out there is. |
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El Kabong
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all you can do is make sure he always has a great time when you are together, and MAYBE it will happen...But don't let someone else pass you by.... |
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The Governor of the Chapped Star
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Once you fix your grammar issues you will be home free. |
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odandme
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You can't MAKE someone love you, either they do or they don't. Sorry. |
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the_saint_heero
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just show him/her u deserve his/her love...then every thing will go at ur way. |
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Ted Striker
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Be yourself. If he doesn't love you the way you are, then he isn't what you want. |
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kesia
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you can not make anyone love you that does not love you on their own. I know it's hard just being a friend when you love someone. I just recently had to make a similar decision in my life. me and this person had started hanging out and one thing let to another and i really started feeling this person a lot. but things started going down hill. one because we both work so much and the time was not there to be spent but it could have been made. so now we are just friends. but every time I come around that person I just wanna be around them and show them how much I can love and be there for them. But you never know what you have until it's gone. And if you let it go and it comes back it will mean so much more. hope this advice helped. |
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