""♥ ♥..The Chief ♥ ♥..
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My Honest Reply as a modern Indian guy,
Depends on how much Money U may have...
How cute u look, Color of skin is secondary to the bank balance.
what kinda freedom u offer after marriage...
what kinda interference u can actually offord to keep away from in his own family affairs... as in sticking your nose into what he decides to buy for his mom and sisters, and sisters in law and all thier kids in your money.....etc etc..
you should also allow a certain amount of him flirting with your gud looking friends.....
and when u ever visit India and his folks... U should be prepared to become a Mannequin for a spell cause he is going to show u off to all his relatives, friends, and neighbours... and his mom and sisters will make u forcibly wear a Saree and a churidar and tell u not to show ur cleavage etc etc...
If all this is Ok with you.... Then Relax..
I am your first applicant...... |
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Dr. DeLight
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Just forget it! It is not going to happen and even if it did you would quickly find out they will treat you even worse than an African American male will.
Matter of fact just forget getting married to any male unless that person is Enlightened! Only a god-man can give you what you need. |
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cuz he will die soon
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anything can happen
try untill you lost yourself.....................in your man |
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Dil
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Chances are very slim...you answered your own question in last few sentences... I have quite a few indian friends...all go home to get marry well except few who get marry here but with indian girls or white girls. |
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Paddy
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My earnest advice - Forget about it. There 'll be too much pressure from his family which he'll eventually give in too. You'll end up being hurt.
I am an Indian, and know Indian mentality quite well. Here people are ostracized for marrying a person of their own religion, but from a different caste. Every day you see young married couples on National Television, asking for Police protection, or the media to intervene.
Indians have a fixation for fair skin, a fair skinned monkey faced girl is called beautiful here. Where is a really beautiful girl, if she is dark is called ugly.
No offense here, but that's how things in India. Very few are open minded enough to accept a person from any, faith or race into their family. Indians remember are very family oriented.
These guys will have good time with you and drop you like hot potato |
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Nina
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I have a friend that from penjab and he pretty mch told me that from the day you are born your whole life is planned out for you, your name gets picked by the day of your birth and when you reach a certain age (it's different for everybody) you go back and marry the girl that was picked out for you in your childhood, so my suggestion would be just to ask him his true intentions towards you. |
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vivek_1986_dude
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well it is nice to hear that a foreigner gal is in search for an Indian guy.. our Indians dunt mind abt the skin color and all.. we used to mind only a lil beauty and a true heart... bcoz here many Indian girls itself are flirting some men(not the whole one.. out of 100% in indian women above 30% of women are flirting boys as lover) so boys really dunlt like to be loved.. u better choose a tue boy who is in love with u... u must gain his confidence that ur in true love with hime.. if so means he will surely love and marry u.. moreover u must satisfy to our culture also.... |
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dipta_j
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You need to get a guy with a mind of his own. A person well read, well travelled and accomplished. You don't get these kind of guys in hundreds.
Else if you bump on to those who checks your bank account or the one who will search for the childhood predestined wife, or the one who is a Mom's boy, you will get hart.
Those guys who dates a white girls and goes off and marry girl back home, they also leave the wife at home and come back to states and starts dating again. They are different breed and stay away from them. |
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ubon
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with all the answer they give to you, liy000, you may as well go to bed and cover your head. |
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dahoosa f
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i hate to look down on everyone else whos answered but thats all nonesense. I admit, it is true that people here are a little fixated on skin and family does put pressure. but come on.. there are 1 billion people here, and i know plenty of indians (i AM an indian). Despite what people think its not as completely narrow minded and conservative as it looks. If the guy you want is after money, or fair skin, trust me you wouldnt like him anyways, and YES you can categorize people like that and put them aside. There is absolutely nothing stopping you from getting an Indian guy, and getting him into a serious relationship - my advice is go for it, nothings stopping you. sure you might get hurt but the truth is your just as likely to get hurt anywhere else too |
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Vicky123
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interesting... i am an indian guy working in middle east... i have met few african gals here and found them really jolly and fun loving. and one more thing that i like about them is that they have perfect bodies...god knows how u get that... but thats something that attracts me to them.
u can catch me at a_friend_in_life@yahoo.com
who knows we may end up being best of buddies... |
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EternalConfusion
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It's not necessarily the dark skin, but it's just that dating African-American women is taboo. Indian men will marry another Indian woman that's very dark, but not another African-American woman. A few Indian men have married black women, but you would really have to search......
If he shows you to his parents, that means he's serious. If he doesn't pressure you for anything physical, it might mean he's serious. Act conservative with Indian men to prove that a non-Indian woman can just be as pious and modest as women from back home.
I'm an Indian girl and most of my Indian male friends tell me their stories though...They just use non-Indian women for sex and they call them whores...but some of them are good. You just have to find them.
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Poison Ivy
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It is really a beautiful thing to see people coming together from very different backgrounds. Dating people in other countries can be very difficult and also very simple. First you have to know whether you're compatible. Does he share your interests? Does he like the stuff you like? Does he think long distanced relationships can work? Then find out if he's your kind of guy in relation to style, tastes and all of that. If you like him, get to know him. He might also think race doesn't really count in relationships and if he's really serious he might even want to meet you in person and start courting. If you are lucky he might be the right man for you! Good luck! |
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