When dating an Italian man.......?

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sueet2b

yes, its a big thing here in italy, im an american, and ive been with my italian bf since june 26, 2002. 4 years have been a lot and we like to think back how did it ever begin? he was 23, i was 19 back then, i barely arrived to florence, didnt speak a word of italian and neither did he in english. he was the type who had never had a relationship longer than 2 weeks, he wasnt an ugly guy at all, he was the well built, nice car, cute face type of guy, but the one who could never hold on to one girl longer than a week.

so he told me the day he met me, (it was a disco bar, yes i know the worst place to find one), he came back home around 4:30 am after meeting me and dropping me and my friend off at our home, he told me, he came inside, ran to his mama's bed at 5 am to wake her and tell her he just met a 'girl'.... i dont mean to say he never met girls, he had been with thousands before, but i guess i really ment something to him that day, so much he had to wake up his mama just to tell her that.

my story went unlike the others, his mama wasnt as happy to know her darling lovable son was dating an 'american'. i figured she was scared i was the type in which he would leave his home italy to be with me in the states, so...she didnt like me at all. my bf respected his mama, but it was his decision whether who to love or not. through out the time we began to communicate a little more and after my decision of staying here in italy to study at the university completely calmed her down.

its been four years and we are still happily together, we are about to take off next week to paris to celebrate our 4 years, this june i was tied up in exams and had to miss our date to celebrate. as for his mom, NOW finally, after so long we are close, she cares a lot about me and whenever im down and sad aobut something she treats me like my mom and yes the food you HAVE to like or else she would get offended.

wendyb204

I am dating an Italian Man...and believe me their Mama's are important! If there mom likes you it means alot to him, and if she doesnt...the relationship is pretty much doomed! Luckily my boyfriends mom adores me! :) And I adore her! And I think this makes him Love me even more! So Good Luck!

S. Revenge

Is this Hidie Hamilton? (I knew it was a guy)

Marie

Yes, that still means your speical. I'm Italian, so when my brother brings home a girl, it means its getting serious, so yeah, ur special!

svetlana

He doesn't take just anyone home to mama. It's something special. And make sure you eat, no matter if you like it or not. She'll be insulted if you dont.

christiez54@sbcglobal.net

Good luck, honey. Italian men are difficult because it's all about them! But then, that's just men in general, huh?? I don't personally think taking a gal home to mama means anything more than that he is close to his mama, which most italian men are - one plus - they are big family people!

MidnightCat

Most likely means you are special and not some piece of ***. Or he is a Mamma's boy. Dig into the spaghetti, eat up, so don't act all crazy neat! Have fun, me & my man are Italian and Mama is important.

Ness

Same rules apply,, if he takes you home your a keeper

eejonesaux

HI,,, traditional Italian males,,,, live with their Momma's,,,, until they get married,,,,,, and then more after.... If he took you home to meet the family, and particularly Momma..... It is a VERY big deal........
You arent ah gonnah marry that guy,, ,with out ah,, Momma says its ah,, OK........

good luck,,,,,,,, ah............

birdy

Is this the same Danni whose favorite food is country fried steak with biscuits and gravy-that is as far from Italian as you can get Southern child. His mama won't be making any of that!

MaryBeth

You'd have to ask the Italian man;)

SweetBrunette

I think they are the same

Sean P

Yes, same rules, but bring some baby wipes.

hauntingskull

Italian menwomen r better dan americans. dey hav style n sexy.
in fact europeans r better dan americans.
usually a man wil take a girl 2 mama place only if she is somethin special to him.

koldpl

Italian man are so confusing this days they don't know want they want.

Adam C

when you date an Itilian it is customary to sleep with his father also.

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