wollemi_pine_writer
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She is your girlfriend not your property so she may choose for herself where to holiday. When and for how long too.
There is nothing is nothing to take. Quite simply she wanted to go on a holiday, planned it and then followed through. What a great woman. Shows she has independence, ability to plan, ability to think for herself, and determination.
Going on a holiday without you does not mean she doesnt care. It simply means she can go on a holiday without you. It also means that you could go on a holiday without her.
Every relationship is made of two individual people It is not two halve of one person but rather two unique and individual human beings with unique and individual wants, needs, abilities, hopes, dreams, and plans. Yes compromise is an important part of relationship and it works both ways. Neither person should cmpromise themselves to hell and end up not doing what they would have done if they had the chance to do it alone.
Stop worrying. Enjoy your time alone with her overseas and let her enjoy her time with her old friends iin Venezuela. |
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Dee Why Boy34
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ugh venezuela....maybe she wasnt visitin a past boyfriend of hers |
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♥Carol♥
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There's nothing wrong with that ... as long as she doesn't make a habit out of it (includes you in MOST holidays). Everyone needs a little time away, once in a while. |
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norsmen
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she went on vacation so what she is her own person and can do what she wants to do |
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yofra2pasquale
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I would not take it.I would make a 180 degrees
and adios!!!!!!!!! |
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Jester
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and she didnt invite you to go with her? I would be mad as hell. |
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Chriztina
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I'd be glad she was getting out and doing her own thing and not relying on me to entertain her. Plus she was going to see friends. My boyfriend and I have taken seperate holidays. It gave us time to breath and get away from everyday life. Sounds like you have a trust issue though. You should address it. |
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head_blown_apart
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O please don't be such a cry baby. If she's venezuelan, then, there's nothing you can do. Everybody has their past and she wants to see her old people there. So don't give her a reason to leave you, Mr. insecure. |
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RoseSpectre666
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Why is that bad? The only bad I can see in it is that she didn't let you come with her. If the person I was dating was going somewhere for an extended period of time and did not ask me to go with them, I would be rather upset. But I wouldn't make a huge production out of it either. |
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Graham H
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Did she bring you a present back? I hear Venuzuelan cream pie is very nice. |
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