Spanish Men I need your help?

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Hondu

How does that make him any different from men, or women for that matter, of any other race? The fact that he is Latin is not a factor. Many men the world over have had and will have girlfriends when they are away from home for a long time. You and he have found yourselves in a situation that has been repeated for century's. The truth is, nobody here can answer your question for you about the outcome. I'm sure he is confused. He has an obligation to not only his wife and child, but to you as well, and about all any of us can do is wish you luck.

Beer is good for breakfast

Get out.

luis m

For those of you that Generalize, and think all "Hispanic men" are this or Guatemalan men are that....... you can not judge a whole nation or a single race based on the actions of just one individual, even if you belong to that ethnic group. Nobody has the authority, knowledge or the right to pass judgement about someone based in very limited information.
What I can tell you is to use your common sense, if this guy is for real, his actions will speak for itself. Do not believe anything you hear and believe only half of what you see.
Give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he does have feeling for you, you say he has been your bf for 2 years, and he did not know about this child? Why did not he tell you about this marriage, he's been with you for the last 2 years, hasn't he?
I just want to give you the best advice anyone can give to someone else, As much as you love this man, I want you to think about this
How mature is he? How responsible is he? How trusting or how dependable is he? How does he treat you? How honest is he with you? Over the last 2 years, I am sure you must to have noticed something about him.
Sit down with him and have a heart to heart conversation with him. And ask him to be honest with you. Then make your decision after this conversation, not before you listen to your "brain" and not your heart.
Best of Luck

AttorneyKearney

He probably has feelings for you but also has a responsability with his wife and child.
He might want to have both of you with him, that is up to you and her if you will allow that, if not then he will have to choose very shortly.
It does happen sometimes but not the custom.

Lic.Gregory Kearney Lawson.

Sunshine

Yes its very common with hispanic men. I am also hispanic and my bro. in laws are from Guatemala. The thing is this Guatemala is a very poor country and he probably came to america to work and support his family and then met you. If he was with you he probably does care for you but it all depends also did he use you for your money? Meaning Guatemalans are known to use the women for money not that they don't work but they also convince them to give them money to support himself and his family. If he's telling you he wants to be with you until she arrives here!? just hear how that sounds! He's a jerk and you deserve more then that! Of course he will always go back to her that's his wife and they been through a lot together. You don't even know if he's been in touch with her the whole time. Be smart leave and don't look back.

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