Dating a gang member?

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Lioness

You're guilty by association, no matter who and what you are. Besides, all it takes is for you to be in the middle of some feud and get hurt unplanned. Kids with guns, no respect/fear of the law (since most of them are used to coming in and out of jail) and no logic, are nothing to play with. I'm not dating a gang member and I still worry about being in the wrong place, at the wrong time. You're making a conscious decision to increase your likelihood of getting hurt. I'm sure the danger and 'bad boy' image is exactly what excites you, but is it really that exciting to risk your life for, Fallen Angel?

Chelsea W

dont date soemone from a gang
its just trouble
believe me
MERRY CHRISTMAS!

*****

You are opening yourself up to a lot of heartaches with this guy.

Bear Naked

It won't matter to them. They may kill him, but don't worry, you'll be gang property.

Spucker

That's not a smart thing to do. If he gets into any trouble in a gang or with his own gang, the first person they will want to harm is you and him.

John M

Don't date a gang member. You want a future with a guy who is headed for jail? (Shaking head....)

Mystery

i'm not sure complete strangers can answer this question but if anything could cost you your life surely isn't it just the intelligent and obvious option not to get involved????????

and if you want to have a good life, don't get involved with a gang member.

Andy

I don't think you should be mixed up in the whole gang situation unless you want to be spending holidays visiting him in prison.

Ya-sai

Lots of tears ahead for you.

Nick

Get out. As far away as you can. Welcomed in is not gonna happen. GANG member, what are you thinking.

smartie_pantalones

I think the psychology of the whole "gang lifestyle" isn't healthy AT ALL for anyone, it's sick and sucks people in. There isn't anything good about it. Stay away PLEASE... gangs are like cults... would you hang out with cult members? or join a cult? or date someone in a cult? Would you take ANYTHING that a cult believes seriously? Probably not sweetie...

PENDRAGON

I say ditch the piece of garbage and find a guy with class that is doing something productive with their life, not some hoodlum that is contributing to Americas problems.

L T J

If you want my advice end it! Sorry i know it might not be what you want to hear but there's soooooo many reasons why you should. I can't even begin to list them all coz I'll be here all day if I do but to name a few :

1. Is it worth the risk of you finding out how they will take it if there is a chance it can cost you your life?
2. How would you feel if he gets killed?
3. Is that the kind of person you really want to be dating?

Really end it now, it's not worth it :o)

Jonny D

Dump him. Stay away from gang as they are BAD news!!

'ol Geezer

YOUR CRAZY !!!!! IF YOU HAD ANY SENSE, YOU'D DUMP THAT LOSER AND GET THE HELL AWAY FROM HIM AND THAT BUNCH OF CRIMINALS. OR, MAYBE YOU WANT TO HAVE YOUR A** H*** OPENED UP BY HIS BUDDIES USING A SCREWDRIVER. THEN SOMEONE WILL FIND YOU UNDER A FREEWAY, WITH YOUR BRAINS (?) BLOWN OUT AND BEING ATE UP BY THE RATS. GET OUT !!!!!!!!!!!!

peteypag2

gangs are like families and they want a kind of standard set for all the members..most of the time that is set by the leader(s)...now depending on how big your boyfriends gang is..this could be bad for you, and id get out of that relationship..but at the same time, if you upset him too much you prolly wont be too..living..
i dont know your particular boyfriend, and im sure theres somethin special about him and all that...but youll always have to watch your back till you are out of San Diego (and his at the same time if you stay..) a gang members life is hard and he prolly needs support from some1 like a girlfriend..so you have a choice to make..
stay with him and live a semi-dangerous life in total secret..or move away and never see him again, but ensure a safer life.
its your call..good luck

Don S

Hey, Girl-ee-oh!
Take it frum another Irishman straight from the hills of Loc Lea. Fool around with this mon if ya want, las. But just remember WHO ya are, girl and take it from there. Yer na' married to this mon, na' matter how brash he is. It all up ta YOU, girl. If ya luv him, go on and stay. If ya just want ta have some fun dyu that too. BUT remember, you are the pilot of yer own ship, las. If he's a burden, there's plenney of other men around. Now if it gets where ya canna back out for fear of your safety, then you'll need a fine, full man that will take you away from all that malarkey. A mon that needs to be in a gang to make himself feel strong and important is actually weak. We dunna' come from WEAK, girl. That's jost not us!
If he really cares for ya, las, he'll come away from it for you. If na, the mon's na worth it. Write me if ya need to.

Don

Peedlepup

Young girls "give" their heart too quickly. The odds are that this is not the person you will wind up in a long term relationship with, so why not stop it now. Find someone else. There will probably be several more boys in your life. And by all means DON"T GET PREGNANT. You don't want to have his illegitimate baby, and have him coming around for the next 18 years.

datsleather

Your the one living it only you can answer it sounds dangerous try and remedy this

Lisa

Why and the hell do you want to date gang member in the first place? They are all dangerous low-life criminals that will never amount to anything in life anyways. You should want something better than that for yourself.

hala L

Answer this...do you even think your boyfriend would protect you if they decided to gang rape you?

Don't fool yourself! Get away now!

z_i_p_p_s_1_9_8_6

They'll accept you once they run a train on your azz!

Babycakes

I'd say more than being worried about dating someone outside of your race costing your life, you should be worried that dating a gang member period could cost you your life. Bottom line, you can do better.

origamimark

Ask your boyfriend.

navy brats rule

scary. leave the decisions up to him!!

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