askaway
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maybe your father is not so concerned with your driving ability....but maybe more concerned with your safety especially if travelling alone.....if you were to break down and have no phone reception you will really be left to be helped by a passer by....and you never really know who that may be....if the latter is the case i fully understand where your dad is coming from.... |
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Nodor
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Yeah I live in Sac. and I drove from Sac. to San Diego when I was 16. If your dad is really affraid of this get a map, have him pick a route and pick times for you to "check in" with him so he knows that you are alright. Damn, at 22 I had already flown to Europe alone, come on girl!!! |
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T-Luv
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no, I am 21 and I can drive wherever i feel like driving. I go on long trips all the time. |
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Shaun A
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Of course you could do it. As long as your car is in good shape and you take a break every two hours there is unlikely to be any problem at all. its no different from five one-hour trips. |
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thejas p
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5 hours drive... and alone!!!....... r u kiddin |
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CruelNails
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Oh goodness, tons of college kids do it every weekend. I used to drive back and forth to Santa Barbara every month or so by myself starting at age 18. No biggie. If you want go onto rideshare at craigslist and get a ride with someone else, or share the driving. Just be safe and drive safely too! |
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pelenpuppy
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I can't imagine why you wouldn't be able to drive there. When I was 18 I took a road trip around the country. Maybe he would feel better if you had someone with you to keep you company and awake. Make sure if you do go that you have a cell phone with you. |
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practicalwizard
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sure, a 22 year old can do whatever she wants. she's of legal age. |
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eri
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Why are you still listening to your parents at the age of 22 when it comes to your autonomy? You've hopefully been driving for about 6 years at this point - and with no tickets or accidents, you should be fine. Of course, if it's not your car, your dad might have a point. You can tell him to get you a AAA membership if he's that worried. |
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EQ
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If it's your dad's car, then it doesn't matter what you or I think, he gets to say where you can and can't drive it.
If it's not his car, then what does it matter what he thinks?
I'm more concerned about a 22 year old who can't take charge of her own life. |
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daniel R
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yes |
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Kim
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im only 17 and i have drove from Georgia to Washington State. pleanty of time. (my parents are divorced and i like to visit them both often) and thats a 3day drive. i think you can handel a few hours. |
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Diane P
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Sure you can do it! Just make a deal with your father that you will call and check in ever hour just so he knows you are ok. I had over-protective parents too and sometimes you just have to do that extra stuff to satisfy them. |
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Lw's Lady
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Yes,my grandaughter who is 21,last year she drove from florida,to ct.about 1500miles.She had a girlfriend with her so she didn't make the trip alone,she drove right thru except to stop for food an use restrooms,we were all very worried,but she did it I don't think a 5 hr.drive is a problem as long as your careful an make sure your car is in good mech.condition,Your father is gonna worry,that's what parent's do. |
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RunSueRun
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Do you know what to do if you have a flat tire on the road?
Do you know what to do if someone hits your car?
If you answer yes, then you are capable of driving alone. |
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Jenn
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I don't think that it would be a problem. You sound like a great driver. When I was 19 I drove a couple of times, from Nashville to Memphis by myself. Also at 21 yrs. old I drove from Nashville, Tn to Dallas, Tx, when I moved.
If you take a cell phone with you & check the car fluids (oil, transmission fluid,etc.) & tires before you go, you should be fine.
Hope that helps & good luck! :) |
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Mcmommy
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You are a grown woman. Do what you feel is right. |
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mheadid
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i think at 22 years of age you should be able to drive across the united states. at 18 you can die for your country, so why would your dad not want you to drive a whole 5 hour drive? must be a very concerned parent. which is not so bad either. |
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alohaforever16
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Sounds like you are a responsible driver, and you are old enough to make your own decisions. I would do that myself if I had the chance! It would not be difficult, just register with AAA, they are awesome you get discounts at all different kinds of places, and they have Trip tiks, a map that is all laid out for you, with the directions, etc to the place you are going.. I love AAA, and stick with that Co.. Go for it, make sure u are prepared and show your dad that u can do it, and it would be a fun trip! Good Luck Ciao! |
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4kit
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First off it is much farther then 5 hrs. From OC with no traffic it will take you 8 hr. but figure 9 to10 with stops depending on the time because you are going to hit traffic in most of the valley towns, unless you go Interstate 5. which is the fastest way. Still figure 9 hrs. |
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ontheroadagainwithoutyou
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Capability is not about age, but about maturity.
There are some 22 year olds who could drive to the moon and others who shouldn't leave their backyard.
And then there is the question as to whose car is it that you'd be driving. If it's your dad's, then, it doesn't matter what we think.
Personally, I'd say go for it, but I've never had a daughter. |
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lucidparade
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If your parents are making rules like this for you, then I'd guess you're either still living with them, going to college on their money, or otherwise relying on their funding. In which case, it's your responsibilty to listen to them. It's cute your dad is concerned and all but I hope the "too far for a girl to drive" issue stems from his concern for you being preyed upon (roadside abductions, car accidents, etc.), not some dated notion that womenfolk don't have the capacities to be settin' off alone like that. My friend is 22 and her parents won't let her drive alone for 3 hours, but it's probably better that way because she's a terrible driver and can't read maps. They bought her the car and she still lives with them, so she can't put up much of an arguement. Or, at the age of 22, you could choose to move out, make your own money, and live your own life. |
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zippythejessi
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Are you planning to go by yourself? That might be what he's concerned about. There are weirdos that prey on women traveling alone... See if you can get a friend or two to take on the road trip - that might make him feel better.
I once drove from NY to DC - but I couldn't have done it alone. It helped to have a friend who could navigate - tell me where to turn or what exit we needed. Plus it was more fun to have someone to yap with - it made the drive go better. When I drive from NY to Boston, I usually go alone and it's BORING. |
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Psycmixer
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Sure !! Your pop is just worried about his little girl:) |
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DemoDicky
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I think an 18 year old could make that drive. I guess it all depends on your maturity level. Are you driving by yourself? Will you have a cell phone? Do you have GPS or maps to get there? Where are you staying when you get there? With whom? How long are you staying? Do you have money to make the trip? Do you have emergency funds if something happends? But generally speaking yes a 22yr old should be able to make that drive. |
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Mariposa
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Take a cell phone in case you run into problems and remember not to pick up any strangers. |
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Texan Pete
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I drove several times from seattle to Houston in the winter at 21. Five hours by yourself should be fine. If you have a car with good gas mileage you may make it on one tank so you shouldn't need to stop much. Plus I'm sure you have a cell phone. |
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All 4 JR
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No, not difficult and Yes, you can do it!. But I would feel flattered that your Dad is worried about you..but he's not giving you any credit for being an adult and it's time to show him that you are. Do it! You will feel anxious and scared but trying to prove it will be a high for you,and when you accomplish it, you will be proud and so will your Dad. I have driven it many times(in an 18 wheeler, none the less) and it is NO big deal! You will have the worst behind you when you leave Orange Co. Good luck...I have faith in you! |
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okay you have got a bunch of answers now, what do you think? Do you drive well enough? are you used to driving on the highways? Are you and your car set up for safety? Your decision but, unless dad is very over cautious or will not let go there might be another reason. Maybe you could take some one with you. Or hit the road. My mother still calls the time I went to Florida At 23 the time I ran away from home and I had to phone home for money to get home sooooo. |
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NATASHA W
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Yes. Definetly. I'm 24. But when I was 21 I went on a 4hr trip by myself. I don't see why you couldn't. |
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