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I would not take offence if some one told me i had nice breasts. if the girl was wearing a revealing top then she must have wanted ppl to notice her chest!!!! |
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WG
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I think you already know her view on this. I believe tho that, if she wore such an outfit, she shouldn't be offended or surprised at such a comment. The bottom line is that she dressed that way so people would notice her and all you did was acknowledge her "advertisment" |
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sanny
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She shouldn't have been showing them off if she can't take the comments.They were obviously on show for people to notice. |
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mr danger
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You just have to be eating dinner when you say it, Cut into your chicken cordon bleu , look over at her and say "What fantastic juicy breasts " When she gives" the look ", say " I was referring to the chicken of course , What did you think I was talking about ?" |
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soccerref
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Unless you know someone really well, I would suggest you stay away from any comments on a woman's figure.
Based on what you said you said, I would've thrown the drink in your face too because I would've assumed (as she probably did) that you were just looking at her breasts and not paying attention to the conversation you were having. She probably thought it was a line....and not a compliment.
Next time.....keep it to yourself or at least until you've known her for a more than 5 minutes! |
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Shortstuff13
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The girl had a lot of nerve throwing a drink on you. She let it all hang out, for all to see, & your comment ticked her off? I agree with you, if she's going to advertise them then she'd better learn to put up with the comments. I will say to you, that your comment was a bit bold. Next time, you may want to save yourself the embarrassment of wearing a drink, & keep that type of remark to yourself. If you don't mind wearing drinks, then there's not much more I can say. |
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hazeleyes1279
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I don't think that you should have commented on them although I agree with you that if your going to have them on display she shouldn't get offended when a man comments on them. And if that is the way you said it, it was a lot nicer than other comments that I have heard in the past. How can a woman wear revealing clothes and then be surprised and appalled at the comments and stares that she gets? Then cover up! |
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hunneybunney
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If a girl comments on another girl then its fine. If a guy comments then it is considered rude and not acceptable. To her it seemed like you were only interested in talking to her for her breasts. For instance did you mention how lovely you thought her hair was, or how bright her eyes were. Breasts are considered to be a sexual object unless feeding babies and know to be an interest of men.... Learn from that one.
My hubby tells me he loves mine all the time.. drives me nuts... i often say to him 'is that all you like then'... |
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Sophie L
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Personally I would be quite shocked if someone commented on my cleavage, thought I wouldnt go as far as throwing a drink. I probably wouldnt say anything though. It depends if you said it in a jokey way which is fine or in a pervy way which would freak me out. |
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katey
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I agree with you 100% ive had my cleavage commented on a few times in that way and i just say thanks if you dont want the attention dont have them on display. As long as your not lewd or crude whats the harm. |
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proofreadergirl
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I agree absolutely that you SHOULD be able to - but it just isn't done. Too personal.
She didn't take what you said at face value. She thought you were saying 'You are such a slapper for putting those on show, no doubt you're up for it with someone you've just met, how about a quick one while my wife's not looking?'
Sorry. |
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country boy
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you cant help it at times especially when girls wear bingo tops (eyes down look in) |
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Joe 90
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I think how a comment will be recieved depends on how sleazy you are. Looks like the drink shows how your comment came over. |
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Mr. G.
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I think you should have commented on how nice her hair complimented her face and how you the way the dress complimented her figure. I think she would get the idea without thinking you were lusting, yes you were, over her breasts. Girls say they hate it when someone talked to their breasts but then they do like to show them off a lot. Breasts = power when THEY want them to hence I don't bother to tell women they look good. |
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Cath
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Ah, "tread carefully"- because it's there, doesn't mean it's necessarily a good idea. Perhaps if you first said, "Can I make a remark and please don't think I'm a perv?" Still I think she would have been put off- but wouldn't throw the drink. Then again, who asks first? |
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JOJO
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well i would of asked you if you wanted to cop a hold.then thrown the drink in your face only joking lol |
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El Cid
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You committed a faux pas. You may say, 'You have a great figure', but not 'breasts'. Neither is it right to stare directly. You can only take liberties you mentioned if you knew her very well. |
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Meg E
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It's pretty creepy, but then again, she did have the sisters on display. Generally, it's best to steer clear of those kinds of comments to someone you just met. |
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timmgoade
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maaaate she probably thought you were trying it on. next time comment on THE TOP unless you know her personally, otherwise it looks like your gawping. take it from me ;) |
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Bruce J
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The reason a girl shows cleavage is to attract a guy. It is a given that men like cleavage. Her reaction was a bit over the top, but complimenting a woman's breasts before you have at least kissed her is not a good idea. It's very assumptive. Instead, try complimenting a facial feature. This lets her know that you have been paying attention to more than just her chest. If you absolutely must say something, make it subtle, something like,' I love that dress. You're so lucky to have been blessed with such a beautiful body. ' |
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à®â™¥Nikki♥à®
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i think it's sick when girls wear tops with those hanging out...asking to be called names.
They deserve all the get...like to save mine just for my husband only. |
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Cherrypicker
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You deserved that drink in your face. What a liberty.... |
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